The toxic phrase
I had a fight with some rando lady on Facebook last night/this morning because she used the phrase "toxic masculinity." I regret all of it. I was stupid to engage. The only way to win that kind of argument is to not get involved in it at all.
I'm shaking. My body is tensed up. I feel like I'm going to throw up and/or cry.
I had to delete my Instagram due to exactly this reason. I don't want to have to delete Facebook too. I rarely even use it but I was scrolling last night because I couldn't get to sleep, and I get into a ridiculous argument. I am angry at and disappointed in myself.
I just hate this phrase so, so much. It's a huge trigger for me since it's used by people who ignore that women can be just as evil, just as abusive as men. And for people who argue that male-perpetrated abuse is systematic and female-perpetrated abuse isn't, I'll ask you to do some research about female teachers, female prison guards, and females who commit domestic violence.
I have a therapy appointment tonight, thank god. But I cannot go on this way. I cannot get triggered every time some ignorant fool throws out this phrase. It's seriously affecting the quality of my life.
I'm shaking. My body is tensed up. I feel like I'm going to throw up and/or cry.
I had to delete my Instagram due to exactly this reason. I don't want to have to delete Facebook too. I rarely even use it but I was scrolling last night because I couldn't get to sleep, and I get into a ridiculous argument. I am angry at and disappointed in myself.
I just hate this phrase so, so much. It's a huge trigger for me since it's used by people who ignore that women can be just as evil, just as abusive as men. And for people who argue that male-perpetrated abuse is systematic and female-perpetrated abuse isn't, I'll ask you to do some research about female teachers, female prison guards, and females who commit domestic violence.
I have a therapy appointment tonight, thank god. But I cannot go on this way. I cannot get triggered every time some ignorant fool throws out this phrase. It's seriously affecting the quality of my life.