The earliest childhood memories I have are profoundly traumatic in nature. I was sexually abused at the age of four. The story you’re about to read is my attempt at putting into words the years of...
A Male Survivor's Guide to Recovery from Childhood Sexual Abuse. This new book for male survivors offers a unique perspective about moving past the ways abusers can control a survivor's life for...
If He Is Raped: A Guidebook for Parents, Partners, Spouses, and Friends is a 1999 guidebook by Alan McEvoy, Debbie Rollo, and Jeff Brookings that helps loved ones support men who have experienced...
This is a story about my fourteenth year of life as a gay kid at an all-boys rugby-mad Catholic school in regional Queensland. It was a year in which I started to discover who I was, and deeply...
Rebuilding Your House of Self-Respect (RYHSR) is the first book written for male sexual survivors that includes the ten stages of recovery. This 2nd edition is thoroughly updated and revised, with...
Rewind, Rebound is a powerful, honest, and supportive guide for teenage male survivors of sexual abuse. In their two previous books, Shining Through and Back on Track, authors Mindy Loiselle and...
A long overdue book by a psychologist who has extensive clinical experience treating male victims of child sexual abuse, it explodes the myth that sexual abuse of male children is rare, or that...
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