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@ilovepugs Hello. How to Support? It’s exactly the question I asked too when I first came here, albeit a few years ago. I’m also a...

Taking out of the abstract context that is often there, let us put it like this: men in our circle have a concern where they are...

There was another thread about ..Am I crazy if I have thoughts about hurting children...and the answer Is no...(just because you have...

I know there are videos out there, possibly hundreds of them, and even more screencaps from the videos. Even as I was "performing" on my...

Sure, this is a natural tendency. Overwhelmingly, we are social beings, searching for identifiers to make sense of things. At the same...

Maybe I’m missing something here, but can you name one popular feminist who does any of the following? 1. Expresses concern for men or...

Beautifully written. I like many survivors I disowned that child within, burying the abuse and denying love to that part of me and thus...

I’m sorry little buddy, What we turned to be. Everything we said we wouldn’t be. Is exactly what what we turned to be. Sorry for...

I feel my abuse has changed me and the first song helps me to feel inspired by seeking that new path. The second song was.more powerful...

This would be a good question to ask Pinocchio.. My thing is this, if you deny my orgasms and torture my genitals to the point I think...

For the longest time.I shamed myself as a as a.victim who was led into submission. I have so much chatter in my head. It's weird.how...

Everything that you are saying is true. It can certainly happen with any group. The problem is that feminists pretend they’re fine, and...

Piggy backing on @Khabeni's comment, I have to wonder if I ever would have discovered how fierce I am. Not that I recognized it at the...

Congratulations. So tough telling a new person your story. I know it's nerve wracking. So glad it went well.

Did you used to be kind and positive? I went through a period like this after changing careers years ago. I was in a profession that...