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    flying replied to the thread A voice in my head.
    Thanks Vi Thanks Visitor, reality checking is a good idea. Any time I go to shame, I need to get away from it. Shame does nothing...
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    Sawyer49 replied to the thread Triggering Music.
    Erick, new here to this site but just started EMDR myself my T plays sounds in my ear bouncing between right and left I pick the cadence...
  • Tedure
    Tedure replied to the thread Not a Jock.....
    Good for you! Its good to be good at lots of different things. It builds confidence! I sang in the Choir too!!
  • Visitor
    I'm in conversation with my fourth wife who is feeling betrayed because of secrets I kept about my acting out behavior over the last 24...
  • David Wayne
    Someone in a criminal justice role who believes the dark web is not a major factor in sex trafficking may not be the best person to...
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    coastal replied to the thread Triggering Music.
    I hear your concern and would be quite concerned about it as well. I understand the motivation of your T to do this work but would fear...
  • Ceremony
    Ceremony replied to the thread Music, and talk..
    When the winding roads curve prevents seeing what's ahead, and forks present without knowing a certain destination, there's no wrong...
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    coastal replied to the thread Forgiving?.
    On the subject of forgiveness from author Jeff Brown..... Forgiveness is not a concept. It’s a process. And, if you choose not to...
  • L
    What a gut-wrenching, heartfelt sentence -- jam-packed with feeling. It really helped me to relate to some things inside of myself...
  • SDD757
    Same...
  • L
    Thank you for sharing this.
  • Visitor
    Visitor replied to the thread A voice in my head.
    Feeling unworthy comes part and parcel with being sexually abused. We end up confused and unworthy. The term "fundamentally flawed"...
  • Ceremony
    Hello StuJ, your sharing how this trauma just hit you, resonates with me. Then you go on to share concerns about relationships, your...
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    WG replied to the thread What does it mean to be a man.
    For me it was cars, engines, design and style. The guys I hung around were into Mustangs, Camaros, Firebirds, Roadrunners and the like...
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    Hello, LinEar - I think it's true, we all ask that question. Often in the middle of the night. Sometimes in the middle of the day. As...
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