I found out that I can finally file a claim

I found out that I can finally file a claim
I just found out that my state changed its statute of limitations for reporting sexual violence if the victim was a minor to no longer have a cut off date or age and I used a site to help me file a claim. I’m taking that monster to court. I am going to refuse any money that he offers me to drop the charges. I am not going to be bought to remain silent any longer. I’m prepared to be torn apart in court and to be all over the local news. He is going down in flames. He has now ignited a wildfire within me and I’m going to make sure that he gets burned. I’m ready for the world to head my story. It needs to know how badly the school failed me by never getting the police involved. I’m tired of having flashbacks and crying because I think that it’s too late got me to get any justice. I deserve justice! I deserve to live without feeling like I can’t do anything about being a victim! I can think of at least two people who I could use as character witnesses and one of them is the local sheriff who knows that I wouldn’t make up something like this. I’m going to fight for all the victims of sexual violence who think that it too late for them to get justice. This guy won’t even know what hit him when I take him to court. I knew that not forgiving him was giving me the drive to continue fighting would finally pay off. J.E.T, you are going down harrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd! Prepare to lose everything, you monster!
 
I am going in guns a blazing. I am NOT going to be silenced anymore and live in guilt that he’s still out there. I’m ready to give every detail about the assaults no matter how painful it is to talk about. He could offer me a yacht as a settlement and I’d still refuse to accept it. I’m not going to rest until he is sentenced to go to jail where he belongs. I’m going to tell them how I have been so traumatized by what he did to me that I now am absolutely terrified of visiting the doctor and hearing, “You need a prostate exam,” and how that has caused me to refuse to see one for the past two years and how I had dreaded turning 40 for years because I knew that I might be forced to get a prostate exam because it is done exactly as he sexually assaulted me. I’m going to make sure he loses everything he has built up for himself and maybe I can inspire others that he possibly hurt like he did to me finally stand up and join together and also tear him down and send him to prison.
 
Good for you! The slime bag deservers your wrath. You are right others may come forward also. Highly unlikely that you were the only one. You are exhibiting bravery in being willing to face the consequences of taking legal action against your abuser. You are doing the right thing- again good for you.

About doctor exams, routine prostate exams are no longer recommended as even the blood test is now being called into question. You as a patient do have the right to refuse certain aspects of an examination and or make requests that would make it easier for you to deal with seeing a doctor. I too have always dreaded doctor exams. I know tell the doctor up front that I am an abuse survivor and deal with PTSD and they have been willing to work with me. That has helped. Men in particular are treated as second class citizens in medical settings, so it is important to make your needs known. Sorry to go off track from the main topic, but taking care of your physical health is important.
 
I was talking to both my sister and therapist and they both think since we were minors at the time, I might not get anything positive suing him. I do have a good case if I file a civil case against the school district since they were all adults and negligent to my safety and were supposed to be responsible for me especially since I’m autistic which means they seriously ignored a special needs student that was being bullied constantly. And there were no legal report of the sexual assaults but there are records on file in the school of the first assault given they knew who did it to me and had suspended him for three days. So I’m going after the school district because they failed me on so many levels just because I was different and they decided that I was not worth helping or protecting.
 
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