Repeated attempted seduction by sister-in-law?
Christopher2
Registrant
My oldest brother had a wife that was described as as a nymphomaniac. She constantly made sexual remarks to most everyone in our very large family. After they were divorced, that is a story to be told all in itself, one brother remarked that the only one in the family and community that didn't know she was messing around was my brother that was her husband. Also, family members have questioned whether they thought that she may have been abused as a child. Shoot when my brother got tangled up with her she was still in high school and he was in his twenties. She became pregnant out of wedlock, they did get married and had a baby girl that we all love and cherish. The child never felt loved and possibly not wanted by her mother. She would even beg to be held by her mother. The child did grow up to be a very valued member of society in spite of her beginnings. The sister in law was quite something else. She was constantly hitting on me and every male in the family. The women in the family as well as the men and boys were always suspicious of her and things never got any better. My brother was a workaholic and was local, but away from the home most of the time. He would bring in good money give it to her and she would spend it freely...and they had very little to show for it! In fact my brother was making probably 2-3 times the kind of money I was making and she was constantly cornering me to borrow money from me to turn the water back on or turn the electric power back on! And others in the family as well. Towards the end of their marriage she went really hog wild, having parties when he wasn't around. They finally sought to buy a home even while she was doing all this running around behind his back. They found a home to buy, put it under contract and were going through the mortgage process when I got word from a family friend she was telling her girlfriends that when they moved in she was going to put my brother out. This was during the same time that all my other traumas were piling up on me and coming to a head, I know now were leading up to my first breakdown. My friend that told me the secret about my sister in law planning to boot my brother didn't want to be involved but thought my brother should be told. It with all the other pressures I was facing was enormous. I did in spite of others in the family warning against it, did tell my brother of her plan, it did end the marriage. For the first time, with my healing taking place, my brother mentioned it in conversation, for the first time to me in more than thirty years. I know I did the right thing in telling him. He claims he was oblivious to the whole ordeal. He remarried and is now entering retirement. The ex-wife died very young. We still have my loving niece, a child of resilience.
