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[TylerZ]

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[George]

Hi Tyler,

I'm sorry that you had to deal with him again, but glad that you got out of there and are now getting some help in person at school. That's a good start to healing.

 

[i-m-Bri]

Tyler,

Man, I can't tell you how glad I am you have someone there in person!

You are still in the abuse, don't judge yourself. You are not stupid, you are programed! You are so close to it, you can't possibly see how the tentacles reach into so much of you. Please, you deserve to be cut a break, especially from yourself.

Damn, I am so sorry he has done this to you again. You've done nothing wrong!

Keep spewing it out here and in therapy. It's poison, dump it anyway you want!

 

[greenwizard]

I am sorry your uncle got to you again, but so very glad you got help. Yeah, I know, telling people what happened, especially strangers, no matter how nice they are, it's intimidating. While I was telling everything to the police officer I felt like I was going to throw up and pass out. I did pass out after I was done actually. And talking to the DA about things was not any easier. But... it did get the ball rolling, and I got some justice out of it.

Moral of the story is, it's hard, I know, but healing is not for sissies. You did what you needed to do, and I wish you all the best.

 

[Ceremony]

Tyler, that's awesome news. Having connections on campus, and others who've given direct action and advice can really calm a situation. That struggle you're having is time to have those connections, and hopefully depending on them is having results for any safety concerns. I would suppose being there, he's not likely to find you again... that is, perhaps help of a stronger sort keeps him away?

You're worth healing and finding your way. With opportunities like this, and your attitude to help yourself, there's time to build the healing.

Good job Tyler, and I like the post just as it is. Writing things out as they are thought of, can get more out sometimes.

 

[bluesky]

Tyler know that you did nothing wrong you are not at fault or stupid. You are In the midst of the abuse. Going away for a while doesn't change the way a victims mind works. I'm 47 and and for years I alowed a person to grope me in my congragation and this is years later. I have learned now how to not allow that but it took time with therapy and help from my wife a friends to stand up for my self. Please be gentle with your self there is no blame on you for what was done to you. Keep your head up and keep telling your story as long as you need to if that feels safe. I am rooting for you.