I don't know, Srangeways. I know what you mean by saying, "Just look at something else". Like
@Jem Ofaguy , part of my abuse story is a woman exposing herself to me. In my case, I remember Mom standing at my bedroom door when I was 16 or 17 while I was getting dressed in the morning. She was topless and speaking to me about everyday stuff like when I'd get home from school, etc. If I looked at her (She was my mother and talking to me, so common courtesy would require facing her), then I couldn't NOT see her breasts. I didn't look at her, in fact, facing away, while she was talking to me. It felt awful. Although it is a very tricky line, and I don't want to blame a woman for wearing something, I do think in some rare cases women are being very manipulative with what they wear, turning it into a kind of power play. Mainly I'm thinking of low-cut tops or things that show off cleavage, because it's really hard to even talk to somebody without noticing that. I don't want to generalize, but in some situations, I think
@Jem Ofaguy has a point.