Jeez, I hear you, too, good buddy. Keep trying, though. How about Martial Arts classes? Or Yoga? Maybe art, or even just plain old continuing education? Hey, even Health Clubs have potential. Maybe church.
I've got my Sierra Club membership, and Amnesty International, Greenpeace, and so on, and am planning to take classes. I've always got hope that work itself will fall into place. In the meantime, this site with all you guys has been terrific.