why i left and why i'm back

why i left and why i'm back
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indygal

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hey there folks,

yes, am back, after leaving in a pathetic huff...

was an extremely difficult time for me when i first came on this site several weeks ago.

first: i left because most of all, i think i felt too much attention was being focused on me in a negative way. i didn't feel supported from the fnf group and even that maybe some were projecting their own ideas thinking that i wasn't being realistic in the expectations of the relationship w/my bf, even that i didn't know him as well as i do.
answering replies to extraneous remarks just became too burdensome and yes, i even deleted everything i wrote on the second post; i just didn't want it there any more, period.

why i'm back: he hurts. i care.

next post will be a lot of questions i hope it's ok.

indygal
 
indy,

Don't worry about why you left, it's just great to have you back. And now that you are, I hope you will feel free to use the site in whatever way it helps you. If you don't feel like answering a post, for example, just let it pass.

If you have problems with the site or how people are relating to you, I would say just take it to SAR. Her job is to moderate this forum and help you partners and friends, and if there are any misunderstandings I bet she can sort them out for you pretty quickly.

Much love,
Larry
 
thanks i appreciate it.

it's still hard, and of course a struggle to deal with all of this, but certainly it helps to know one is not alone as well as others have been this route before (unfortunately).
 
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