What is healing & Overcoming Of Male Sexual Victimization ?
mattandrew
Registrant
This subjected post may hit a lot of us right where we live but, it is directed primarily to those just starting the process of healing & Overcoming the sexual victimization we sustained.
Another poster made some of us already aware in the members forum about living our lives but,What really is healing & Overcoming of male sexual victimization?
For me what healing & overcoming my own abuse is to me is not allowing myself to continue to wallow in the old effects of the abuse however, that does not mean that i don't have other days where the effects from the SA does not pop its ugly head up and say hello and let me know it still remains even while in the process of healing.
Healing is a personal thing,what works for one person may not work for another person,each person has to define their own healing and how they achieve their own personal battle plan to achieve healing from the abuse we have sustained.
Healing is allowing ourselves to confront our perp thru whatever means necessary such as a letter defining how the abuse has effected the life we now lead if it still is effecting what you do daily and how it effects what you do when it rears it's head.Healing is not forgetting where we came from or what has happened to us but, it is allowing ourselves to "Get Better in body & Mind from the SA".
Overcoming is another manner of how we heal,overcoming is the method in which we chose to decide how we will battle the effects of the sa when it rears its head.This method can be a learned method thru therapy or thru writing such as poems or thru other means such as allowing ourselves every day to stop and smell the roses or if you don't like roses then stop to smell the sweet cigar being smoked.Overcoming is letting yourself learn a new way of living when anger or frustration comes into play,another way of overcoming is how and what we do with our own sexuality which can be different for others which, we as survivors all need to learn to respect those around us and need to learn to allow ourselves to drop the mask when we are comfortable enough in the steps of overcoming the sa and how much we have healed.
Therapy can and is another great way of healing and overcoming because it gives us another method not possible to us before we started the process of healing,this method is a great way to learn alternative methods from those who have studied the ways and methods to help others overcome the sa.
For those of you that read this i would ask of you to post how and what you personally do to heal and overcome so others can and will be helped thru reading and maybe deciding some of the manners that we use they can use themselves if they so choose.Now is the time to post about healing and learning from other brothers who are part of this forum and helping others see what we do and how we overcome because this is why we are here.
I personally will post more later about what i do to heal and overcome and what i did to confront my abuser and how my life now is after all these certain effects have been launched in my life.
Come one come all with how you heal and what you do to overcome your own abuse.
Another poster made some of us already aware in the members forum about living our lives but,What really is healing & Overcoming of male sexual victimization?
For me what healing & overcoming my own abuse is to me is not allowing myself to continue to wallow in the old effects of the abuse however, that does not mean that i don't have other days where the effects from the SA does not pop its ugly head up and say hello and let me know it still remains even while in the process of healing.
Healing is a personal thing,what works for one person may not work for another person,each person has to define their own healing and how they achieve their own personal battle plan to achieve healing from the abuse we have sustained.
Healing is allowing ourselves to confront our perp thru whatever means necessary such as a letter defining how the abuse has effected the life we now lead if it still is effecting what you do daily and how it effects what you do when it rears it's head.Healing is not forgetting where we came from or what has happened to us but, it is allowing ourselves to "Get Better in body & Mind from the SA".
Overcoming is another manner of how we heal,overcoming is the method in which we chose to decide how we will battle the effects of the sa when it rears its head.This method can be a learned method thru therapy or thru writing such as poems or thru other means such as allowing ourselves every day to stop and smell the roses or if you don't like roses then stop to smell the sweet cigar being smoked.Overcoming is letting yourself learn a new way of living when anger or frustration comes into play,another way of overcoming is how and what we do with our own sexuality which can be different for others which, we as survivors all need to learn to respect those around us and need to learn to allow ourselves to drop the mask when we are comfortable enough in the steps of overcoming the sa and how much we have healed.
Therapy can and is another great way of healing and overcoming because it gives us another method not possible to us before we started the process of healing,this method is a great way to learn alternative methods from those who have studied the ways and methods to help others overcome the sa.
For those of you that read this i would ask of you to post how and what you personally do to heal and overcome so others can and will be helped thru reading and maybe deciding some of the manners that we use they can use themselves if they so choose.Now is the time to post about healing and learning from other brothers who are part of this forum and helping others see what we do and how we overcome because this is why we are here.
I personally will post more later about what i do to heal and overcome and what i did to confront my abuser and how my life now is after all these certain effects have been launched in my life.
Come one come all with how you heal and what you do to overcome your own abuse.