We're not alone (neither are you!)

We're not alone (neither are you!)
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crisispoint

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Every day I see new members joining up. On the one hand, I find that sad. How many men and boys have suffered through SA, rape, whatever consitutes our experiences? How many more will go through it and feel alone?

On the other hand, my new brothers (new in the sense you're here and reaching out... :) ), I am gratified that you are here. You're making a big step in taking back your lives. That's the hardest step, but know you are NOT alone in this. We are here and there are other people who will help you.

Keep coming, my brothers. And keep making that step. As I figured out, it's the act of reaching out that's important!

Peace and love, Brothers old and new!

Scot :D
 
I agree Scot. The other night I was in chat and I got so sad - the feeling was so intense because I knew that when I told my story, and another person said, "I know how that feels," I knew he wasn't kidding. He really did know how I felt.

That's the great part of the site, and the most tragic. I don't ever want ANYONE to feel the way I feel... but at the same time, knowing I am not alone is one of the things that has helped me get through the past few weeks.

One of the best things that I remember from first coming here was how everyone said "I'm sorry you need a place like this, but glad that you found us." I guess that sort of sums it up.

-Sean
 
Realizing I'm not alone in this, after 30+ years of agony, was quite a revelation. I feel like I've learned a great deal in just the few weeks I've been here. I've felt some of the most intense emotions anyone has ever felt, more than I could have possibly imagined. I'v been more honest with my wife, family and friends and, most imprtantly, ME than ever before. This is the beginning of a new beginning. I'm scared, excited, anxious, enthusiastic, apprehensive but DETERMINED to make the changes so necessary to become whole, to enjoy my life and those I Love and those who Love me. I thank you all for your support and,even moreso, for the support I know I'll be able to find here for as long as I need it. Oh, and I think it's time to change my name from "Sinking", I don't think I am anymore. Peace.
 
Hey guys,

Even though I've been working on recovery for a number of years, I have felt from just the couple of days that I have been visiting mailsurvivor significantly more empowered. It means a great deal to me to have found this supportive network of guys.

Because of the stress of being around people and dealing with them I have only been able to work 4 days a week for quite a while. I was informed yesterday that the agency I work for is going to require that I work 5 days a week.

Last night and today I was able to ask for and get support from the two therapists I see and my psychiatrist. Not long ago I wouldn't have felt good enough about myself to have a good understanding of what I wanted and wouldn't have been able to advocate for myself.

Despite yesterdays letdown (I almost cried in the meeting) today I feel supported and stronger.

B
 
My brothers I am so happy to meet you all. I just wish the circumstances were different but they are not and I am ok with that.

I posted a thread once called millions of true stories.

Here is the link. I think you might find it interesting

https://www.malesurvivor.org/cgi-local/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=001789#000000
 
My best friend is a male survivor. I found this site for him because he was a slave in the land of de NILE. No longer. He's well on his way to the promised land and freedom.

Over the couple of months I've been visiting MS, I have learned more than I ever could have possibly imagined, but the most important thing I have learned is that the very best, most intelligent, most courageous, most sensitive, interesting, sincere and lovable people come to this site. I wish there was some way I could tell you how very honored I am to have met the the people who are part of the MS community. I don't know why, but you're the best on the net.

Mary :)
 
Thanks Mary! I must say that I agree completely.

Bob
 
'There are no strangers here, only friends you haven't met yet'.


Welcome,
leosha
 
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