I had a girl I met over at my place last night, we try to have sex and I wasn’t able to get it up. It’s not a good feeling, it’s happened quite a few times in the past. Sometimes I wonder if deep down I’m gay or maybe is performance anxiety? I can’t seem to fully relax and enjoy the moment while I’m having sex. Obviously the better I know a woman the easier it gets I suppose. Anyone have experience with this? My abuser was my uncle and I remember I liked the feeling so that often makes me question whether I’m gay or not. Even though I do get attached and am attracted to women.