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TeeJayUU

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T Day today. Sometimes I HATE going! Sometimes I feel the pain slowly leaving, but I HATE remembering.

I asked my wife of 16 years to give me a divorce because I am "damaged goods" and I am more needy than our two emotionally distrubed teenagers. My unpredictable mood swings, anger, resentment, NO self-esteem, and so on.

I had to call my Psych today. I have been so down, my meds are not cutting it! Called in sick Thurs and Fri, can not afford to do that too often. He changed my meds, let's hope it works!

My T thinks this is a good site for me, I can vent and not feel alone, not feel too crazy, not feel that I am THE ONLY ONE who ever went through this.

I love you all for being here, listening, supporting, giving advice or feedback or a pat on the back!

PEACE MY FRIENDS AND BROTHERS!

TJ
 
P.S.

Oh, I forgot to say, the stubborn wife said no to the divorce (for some unkown reason she still loves me ... but why?)

TJ
 
TJ,

I understand the feeling of being damaged goods, but we are not just victims. There is more to our stories than that. I am so happy that you have a stubborn wife.

I celebrated my 24th anniversary today with my stubborn wife. Aren't they great!

Ken
 
i know i have felt what you describe many times. it makes it hard sometimes when i need something from my wife. i feel like i've put too much on her already, and shouldnt ask for more. i've learned to remind myself she is with me by choice, not because she has to be there. i'm sure in your wife's eyes the good outweighs the bad, or she wouldnt still be there.

i hope you feel better.
take care
jeff
 
TJ,

I have lost count of how many times I asked my wife if it was time for me to leave or some such. The last time it was because I am annoying, inconsistent, a source of aggravation, but nothing good.

She hasn't given up on me, or on us, despite some hellish things we've been through. Gosh, she is so stubborn! :) Lucky, lucky me.

Thanks,

Joe
 
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