Tuesday

take care. be gentle and good to yourself. i know you are in a hard spot, and will be praying for you.
 
Jay,

It's the healthiest thing in the world to take a break when we need one. Take care, and you will be in our thoughts while you are gone.

Much love,
Larry
 
I hope to see you again Jay, I will always remember you, your story, your pain, and your desire to find answers and recover. I'll probably be here when you come back, being as which I have not found all the answers I'm looking for either.
 
Hang in there Jay, I'll be looking forward to seeing you when you get back. Take care of yourself first.

Love ya

Darrel
 
Thanks everyone, I just needed a day to get some things straightened out in my mind.

BTW, I'm going to be a dad.
 
Jay,

Woah!!!!!!!!! You really have a knack for playing down the big news!

So what do you think of the prospects of becoming a father? This will be a huge change in your life of course.

Much love,
Larry
 
Yes I'm sneaky like that!

I'm not sure Larry... she doesn't even know if she wants to have it. DNA test will tell us for sure if it's mine. I've put some thought into it... if it is mine and she wants it and want me to stick around that means a lot of changes as you said. No drinking/drugs/anonymous sex, etc. All the fun stuff.
I'm just kidding about that of course...
I just don't know... but we'll figure it out I suppose.
 
Jay,

You will both have a lot of thinking to do. Most importantly, are you ready to commit to a partner because she is carrying your child? Are you able to do that? What are her ideas?

I smiled when I saw this one:

No drinking/drugs/anonymous sex, etc. All the fun stuff.
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You know what? If you opt to give those things up for the right reasons you probably won't even miss them. For years I thought the greatest miracle in the world was sex on LSD. I was wrong. It's the first time your own child holds onto your finger and looks at you and smiles.

Much love,
Larry
 
Well I basically told her that I'd back her up/be here no matter what she decides to do. She knows that I'm not commit to her, or anyone for that matter. Shit I'm not even straight I'm Bi. But it doesn't mean we have to get married. If she wants to have it and have me around that's cool, I'll be around as much or as little as they want, I'll give her all the money she needs, etc.

She was pretty upset at first and was shocked considering I was only her every now and then "sympathy fuck". lol

She's afraid to tell her father, he's a Marine, a strict Marine and he's already made it pretty clear that he doesn't like me much.

Sex on LSD? :p right.... Anyway, yes I know what you're saying. It's hard to just give it up for myself but I know I can do it for my kid, assuming it's my kid.

Yikes!
 
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