Trust is NOT gone

Trust is NOT gone
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Leosha

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For personal reasons, it is taking a LOT for me to say that right now. But I have to say it.

leosha


I'm apologizing to Leosha for hitting the wrong button...I meant to hit PM and I hit EDIT instead. I apologize to him for giving any indication that this post needed editing...it did not...it was just my slip of the finger.
DN Mod in humility
 
I srill trust, but I just want all this hurt in this place to cease, we don't deserve or need it right now, sometimes things in here make me feel like the lost little boy, he sure doesn't need that,

ste
 
Trust is slow to gain, but can be lost in an instant.

It takes even longer to regain the trust we've lost, but regain it we will.

And to everyone who has sent messages of support and offers of help to myself and the mod's, thank you so much.

Dave
 
Originally posted by Lloydy:
Trust is slow to gain, but can be lost in an instant.

It takes even longer to regain the trust we've lost, but regain it we will.

And to everyone who has sent messages of support and offers of help to myself and the mod's, thank you so much.

Dave
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I was away from the site for a while so I came back to find quite a dust-up going on. I can only imagine what it would be like to be a newcomer and find this.

That said, I want to tell that newcomer - with my thanks to everyone who moderates, sits on the Board, and so on - our discussions here as survivors, just letting it out, is far more important than any problems which might arise from time to time.

I began this work (again) here. From here I have been referred to additional resources (thanks again, Mike!). There is great work here and I want to do what I can to keep it going.

Peace,
Kenn
 
I was about to add a comment to a post that indicates that some negative activities /comments have taken place behind the scenes.... I am not going to do that - I am going to start a new post reminding everyone of what can be gained from this site! *I don't know what has happened ...just remember we are the biggest band of brothers that should really care about each other!

Best wishes again ...Rik
 
Trust may not be gone, no. If you lose your trust then what else is there? Probably not much.

However, trust is a big word with only a few letters, just like love.

One may say, after suffering a broken heart because of a loss of a love, that they can never love again. Perhaps, but then, isn't that a choice?

The human spirit is a learning one. It is always moving forward, always adjusting, always adapting.

I have refrained from speaking out in this public forum for quite some time. I feel I have to speak on this issue because it is near and dear to my heart.

While this site may in and of itself not be a true replacement for professional psychological help that most of us need, what this site does do is offer friendship, kinship and most of all community. To know that we are not alone in our struggle.

I only ask that eveyone not give up. There are many of us out here that are real, that are truthful, that are who we say we are, who have been through our own versions of hell and have survived. I am real. Many of you know me, to all the new people, let me tell you who I am.

I am Jim. Some of my friends call me Jimmer.

Trust. Don't let it go......


Jimmer
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I have posted this in other places, but...

My Brothers,

There seems to be a lot of confusion, questions, some finger pointing, anger, et cetera, around here of late. There are some uncomfortable postings and situations going on at MaleSurvivor.

However, the overwhelming number of us are here to simply heal, trust, share, and so on. The MS Mods and Board do an OUTSTANDING job of providing a safe environment, a warm and welcoming place to come and heal. I want to thank them for ALL they do for each of us!

I know they are in a difficult situation right now, and for that, I am VERY sorry. I hope and Pray that all of these issues can be worked out in the best possible interest of each person involved.

As much as I would REALLY like to know what is going on here, it really is not my business. What I have read has left me a bit dazed and confused, but again, THANK YOU MS for all you have done for so very many of us!

To all of us Brothers on this most difficult road to healing I Pray for PEACE, FAITH, HOPE, and LOVE!

TJ
 
Though you have no reason to like me at all Leosha, I want you to read the response I posted in unmoderated.

Why is everybody so willing to jump to conclusions? Trust has always been something I wrestle with. And in my case it has not been hurt here.

Bronc
 
The forum has been experiencing some difficult times. Issues of trust have been raised. I am saddened that once again someone has had such unhappiness in their life that they have needed to create 'parallel personalities' at MS to feel validated. People have been hurt and are rightfully angry and mistrustful. I am reminded that we are all at very different stages in our recovery. Some have been more deeply damaged, maybe have received less support or had more fragile psyches. But this is still a great place. A place where we CAN and DO find honest, caring fellow survivors. Thank you to the moderators for their vigilance and time, and thank you to all the caring members who have posted and urged calm and temperance during this last couple of days. Peace, Andrew
 
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