"Toxic"
People are sure wedded to their terminology. I just spent (wasted?) 45 minutes of my day patiently explaining to a whole crowd of people on Facebook why the term "toxic" was so hurtful, shaming, and unhelpful. A few people understood, but the rest really didn't understand that if you want to reach someone, you need to reach them where they are. (And some people were quite happy to taunt me. Hmm.)
I personally have never met anyone who, when told that they or their behaviors were "toxic," thanked the person and vowed to change. Nope! Their responses were more typically brought to you by the letters "F" and "U." But people not only DON'T seem to understand that, they don't even care. It's "toxic" or nothing for them.
Crazy.
I personally have never met anyone who, when told that they or their behaviors were "toxic," thanked the person and vowed to change. Nope! Their responses were more typically brought to you by the letters "F" and "U." But people not only DON'T seem to understand that, they don't even care. It's "toxic" or nothing for them.
Crazy.