Things I wish I could say to my family

Things I wish I could say to my family
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Rustam

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Hi Jake,

Sorry you are hurting so much with this. I have emailed my partner when I am really hurting or have hurt him and cant talk with him about it. It has helped me get the communication going again. I thought that you might want to consider printing this post and giving it to them.

Welcome to the site and take good care of yourself.

Rustam
 
I'm sorry to hear about what your going through. I know how you feel though. I'm married with 5 kids. I was abused between 7 and 15. I might gainthe courage to talk about it more later, but I'm diagnosed with PTSD and DID with multiples from the SA and I have Bi-Polar with Psycotic features as I guess an added bonus from my family. I have some of the same issuse but I'm forced to hide them and store them away from my family. I hope it all wworks out for you and I know if you got this far you can go on further. Take care, -Dude
 
Rustam,

I think im gonna take ur advice and Mikes too and talk to them. Ill print this letter and give it to them and Ill let you dudes know if this goes ok. i hope it does im still so nervous about it though and thats where i get confused cuz all my feelings about things arent the way I normally use to be
 
Ya, Jake, let us know how it goes. Writing to them is really good, good suggestion, Rustam. It works as well when going into a therapy session when one is afraid of forgetting or not knowing how to start.
Am I prying when I ask if these people are your brother and sister?

Strength and courage,

David
 
to david
you said
"Am I prying when I ask if these people are your brother and sister?"
I dont have a problem with it, but no we are not related, all from different familys. They are both my soulmates and all 3 of us love each other.we been together for 7 years, 3 in the foster/group home and then we been on our own since we were 16.

I gave my mates a copy of the post and it was all ok for awhile, but then Brian brought up stuff he knew about my childhood and its stuff I didnt want to remember :( and then I kinda lost it and punched another hole in the wall.but then in the end I think it helped them and me cuz they understand better what im going through. I still dont feel good talking much to them about how i feel so we kinda agreed that when things come up ill write it down for now and tell them stuff that way. someone from the forum had asked me if i was going to therapy but Im not cuz i dont have a way to pay for it and i dont have any insurance or anything. so what i got is this group and
my mates who are my only family cuz i wont have nothing to do with the whore addict bitch that birthed me.
 
Jake,

It sounds like you guys have made a family of your own. I'm sorry that you're birth mom has problems of her own and can't handle being a mother to you.

You sound like quite a guy to not only take care of yourself but to also band together with the others and make a family. Some of our problems pale by comparison...not that we do any comparing around here...I extend my hand in welcome and I honor your bravery for persevering to having a life.

Draw what you can from us and take heart for the future, you sound like a fighter who can make it.
Have you tried any clinics, ER's or Crisis Lines to see if there is help available for free therapy? I would encourage you to try and see what your community has to offer.
Good luck to you and your family and welcome, once again, to MaleSurvivor.

David
 
to david

you said
" I'm sorry that you're birth mom has problems of her own and can't handle being a mother to you."
she was never a mother she dont even deserve to be called a mom in any way. i dont know if shes in jail or dead . i hope shes dead i hope she died in some evil fuckin way and suffered alot cuz thats all she deserves.
 
real mothers dont let their sons get hurt and they dont beat on them when they crying cuz they got hurt and they dont sell their sons to fuckin pervert mother fuckers for drug money
 
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