The F&F forum
I post here rarely and answer even more rarely. I don't even read this forum very much.
If there was a place I ever felt truly helpless to help in, it would be here. The very name "Friends and Family" is bitter for me. When I come here and read of all the things you fine people are going through, I suppose I could say that I'm glad I don't have to deal with this crap. But I don't say that.
Instead, above and beyond the title of the forum, just seeing what you guys go through makes me feel lucky (in a sick kind of way) that I never put anyone through this. But that feeling is a double edged sword.
So, keep talking. I may not come here much, but I want to let you know you fight battles that I cannot even imagine. I just want to say I support you all and am proud of you for coming here and sharing what you do. Takes a lot of courage and insight, I guess, to deal with a survivor only to find out you are the secondary victims.
What courage!
Marc
If there was a place I ever felt truly helpless to help in, it would be here. The very name "Friends and Family" is bitter for me. When I come here and read of all the things you fine people are going through, I suppose I could say that I'm glad I don't have to deal with this crap. But I don't say that.
Instead, above and beyond the title of the forum, just seeing what you guys go through makes me feel lucky (in a sick kind of way) that I never put anyone through this. But that feeling is a double edged sword.
So, keep talking. I may not come here much, but I want to let you know you fight battles that I cannot even imagine. I just want to say I support you all and am proud of you for coming here and sharing what you do. Takes a lot of courage and insight, I guess, to deal with a survivor only to find out you are the secondary victims.
What courage!
Marc