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Branson

Registrant
I have checked a couple of things out with other people here.

I have suspected my boyfriend and I are being singled out for interrogation. And it appears we are right. No one else remembers getting messages asking for more information than we provided at sign up. And no one remembers being asked to submit to a phone interview.

Apparetnly we share a provider with someone who has caused problems and that has cast suspicion on us. This is not fair.

I came here to be believed. Not to be doubted again. When the administrators have finished thier security clearance on us, I may be back. But I will say that this makes me very very nervous.

I didn't do anything wrong. Just like I didn't do anything wrong then.

Branson
 
Dear Branson,

All of us have been hurt before in our lives and it is such a bounty that we have a place like MS that we can come to. Of course, it is important for all of us that this place is kept safe so we can heal our wounds without the risk of getting hurt again. Therefore, I believe we should all trust the administrators of MS and not feel bad if they need to get more information from us to make sure that we are all safe. And after all, we know that any information we provide the hosts of this website will remain confidential. We have seen how wonderful and responsible these people are and how much they selflessly give of themselves and of their time to all who come here.

I understand that at first you must be feeling unconfortable but would suggest that you do not take this new procedure they are addopting as something personal. We all want this place to be safe for you, for others, for all of us, so there is no harm in us helping the administrators/moderators do their job well.

Hope to see you back soon. We are all here for you in your process of healing from the effects of SA.

Raphael
 
O Branson! you remind me so much of my self.

When ever I am not made to feel special or my authority is questioned I immediately take it as a rejection of my being and get hurt. As I am constantly looking for others for approval.

So I as response I learnt way back in my childhood I reject or hit back at the concerned people or institution, like the people at my own meditation centre.

Sure enough months, years later I had to go back with my tail between my legs, in short with humility.

The world owes me nothing to treat me special. And I can only reject myself, not any one else..

NO one doubts me but I myself. while I contine to suspect that the world is doubting me.

We are all human, thank you for reminding me that.

much love

PS: As I am finishing this.. Sinead O connor starts singing a song on the radio: Nothing compares to you.... This song is for you boy! ;)
 
Branson
I will take this opportunity to state what I know.

Yes you do share an ISP witH someone recently banned, and therefore a close IP.

But it is NOT THE SAME.

Unfortunately we are in a period of not easily trusting others because of the way we were treated by those people that were banned.
That is both unfortunate and understandable.

For the same reasons that you have just stated, 'trust' is a short commodity at this time, which is deeply sad.
There are guys here who were mislead and manipulated, which is the last thing Survivors need, so they are cautious.
This in turn reflects on your situation, as you are the 'victim' once again, which you don't need.

Let me state once again, your IP does NOT match any of those peoples we have recently banned.

I sincerely hope that you stick with MS, and I also hope that we extend the help and support to you and your partner that we normally do towards ALL new guys.

Thanks
Dave
 
I think we have passed the tests. I hope so. I want to talk here but it has really been hard knowing I was under suspicion.

To those of you who have helped, thank you.

Branson
 
Branson,

Some things that happened here in the recent past made us all a little suspicious and methods had to be put in place to assure our (and now your) safety. I am sorry and hope you can forgive our caution. Please, lets put it in the past.

You are welcome!

Aden
 
Guys
Please let me assure you that Branson is NOT anyone we've recently banned coming back under another name.

I know that many of us are wary of new people in the light of recent events, and caution is no bad thing at any time. But the Mod's are keeping a very close eye on things and everyones safety is as always our main concern.

I also want to apologise to Branson for the extra 'security' he went through, but we did it so Branson could use MS - not because we suspected him.

I hope you find MS a good place to be Branson.

Dave
 
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