SMC1972, I too am proud of you. Thinking about my mom, wh is with Jesus now, I don't know if I would have summoned the courage to tell her anything. I am in awe of you. I gu ess I am with Mac. The ultimate decision is yours. I am a Christian and do believe God answers prayers and needs in our lives, even if we don't ask. Sometimes he says yes to a question, sometimes he says no and sometimes He says not yet. give it a bit more time and see what you think. He may just be saying to talk to her, but do it sometime down the road. I am not a T, but please don't spend your time worrying about this. If it is to be done, the opportunity will present itself.