swartzhund's hello

swartzhund's hello
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swartzhund

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Hi everyone, my name's Brian

I just found out about this place from a good person looking out for the best interest of survivors.

I was struck to see how many of us are here....I have only recently tried to reach out and do a little talking on an ezboard forum but there was only one other man there. Not that I mind, I have never been totally comfortable with men anyway. Maybe some of you understand that.

Anyway, I'm so glad I found this place, I'm 31 and I've been keeping this to myself for too long.....I now feel the need to try to learn how to deal with myself.
 
Hi Brian:

I am sorry for what has brought you here but totally glad that you have found us.

You have just discovered a group of guys who are really unique. They care about each other and support each other. Just like true brothers do.

There is no discrimination, judgement or condemnation at all.

Hey we are neighbours. I am in Southern Ontario near Toronto.

So once again welcome
 
Hi, Brian, I'm David.
Welcome. I hope that you find this place as helpful as some of us have.
I've read your poem, you bring real talent to us.
Thank you for sharing it.
Thank you for joining us.
Thank you for lending your voice where others may not be heard.
David
 
Brian
you've come to the right place, even if you have had trouble relating to other men in the past don't discount us.

This site is for men who are Survivors, there are many female partners in some of the other forums, but this forum we keep for ourselves as much as we can.
So we can share what troubles us as men, and get support from other men.
Abuse affects men in different ways to women, so integrated sites don't seem as effective, I don't think so anyway.

Here we don't judge each other, we support and help where we can, so stick around and enjoy the company.

Dave
 
Brian,
I know how it feels not to be comfortable around other men. I am learning that most of the guys I meet through school and work are good people, and none would hurt me like my abuser.
Welcome to the family, brother. We will all do our best to help you along on your journey. Just do not be afraid or embarrased to reach out for help.
Peace be with you,
Casey
 
Welcome Brian,

Ah, another Michigander. That makes like 6 or 7 of us (at least the ones that will admit that we are in Michigan).

I'm glad that someone pointed you in the right direction and here. There isn't nearly the amount of help and support for male victims as there are for woman. Heck, I've even been told by the Community Mental Health intake desk, men don't need help. Let's just say they got an earful.

A lot of us have kept this $#!t in too long, way to long. It's never too late. I waited until I was 37 before I told anybody and it was only because my phychiatrist asked. I am glad that he did.

Sorry that you needed to find us, but I am glad you did.

Take care,
Bill
 
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