is it just me or are some stories unbelievable
A Skeptical Optimist
Registrant
An argument full of bullshit
I'm sorry, but this thread has pissed me off!
Do you need a simpler explanation for the harm your view can do?
So many of us starting our journey begin with what feels insane fear and phobias we can't explain. When my flashbacks started, I had a hard time believing them. I had created this idea of my childhood in my mind, one completely divorces from reality.
It was only when I began verbalizing and writing about them that I was - so FUCKING SLOWLY - able to untangle the threads. So many other memories and moments and feelings were wrapped and tangled together.
And I believe that's what happens here, even for the men you think are lying. They too are untangling the thousands of threads wrapped up in their trauma.
They don't owe you a fucking thing. Don't believe them if a comforting lie is more useful to you, but you don't get to fucking decide another man's truth.