We very, very, very much discourage men who post here to give out their personal information such as their email addy, their home address, their phone number, or pictures of yourselves. The reason is that in our experience, this exchange of information has led to serious problems.
If, after quite a long time you feel secure enough in a relationship and feel you know that the person posting realy is who he claims to be abd is really the age he claims to be, then, you might, feel safe to exchange am IM nick or something. But we always caution about this.
Bob