Self Care
Your encouragement means a lot to me. Thank you.You are a good man Larry. I have enjoyed your posts. I think that self care, taking care and living a good healthy life is a big part of healing. Diet and exercise have an impact on how we see ourselves. As we see ourselves in a more positive light it becomes easier to build friendships. One positive step forward begets another and the path doesn’t seem as steep anymore.
I love this, Larry!That is a large part of my self care as well. The more I affirm my manliness the more I walk tall with my back straight, chin parallel to the ground, looking ahead and scanning the environment and my arms/hands swinging slightly by my side, speak clearly without mumbling, make eye contact with other men, smile, and listen for understanding when other men speak. I am forcing myself to walk past reflective surfaces - windows, mirrors and metal just so I can look at myself. The reflection is mine. It's not another man. It's not a terrified little boy posing as a wanna be man. It's me.