Reverse Psychology

Reverse Psychology
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Hey guys - I have been thinking about this topic A LOT recently. I think my therapist is using this on me and it drives me crazy. I'm listening to his every word waiting for the reverse thing to happen and when it does my head spins. Then on top of this, I tried using it on my mother today. We were having a discussion about the abuse. I was trying to feel - something anything and she just wasn't getting it. I was trying to explain to her how she shames me by saying things like "C'mon get out of bed or you are going to get bed sores." I KNOW THIS! I don't need to be reminded of my laziness. So what I said to her (here is the reverse psychology thing) was: How would you know what I'm not feeling? This was said not as a response, but as a statement. The enitre conversation changed and my mom got up and left - leaving me feeling alone and scared and shameful.

Why do I do this to myself? Not sure what to do now. How do I get back out of the reverse I did to my mom (and me!)???

Jason
 
Jason, I think the abuse is more about how you do or don't feel than trying to analyze what your therapist or Mom is thinking. Your Mom and you will probably be fine, she is struggling with the whole issue too. Go easier on yourself buddy. Remember, your therapist and Mom are on your side.
Peace, Andrew
 
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