Reporting again

Reporting again
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Last year, a friend and I made police report against the man who abused him, and who also was one who abuse me also. Other then talking to two other people we know of, nothing was done of it. When we ask what happens with it, we are told that they can not discuss an 'ongoing' investigation. Ongoing of what? they do NOTHING. The man, he has not been bothered by anyone. To what we can see, nothing been done, nothing happens.

So when I am home for few weeks next month, I have decided I will report it again. Not just him, but all of it. See if they will 'lose' this one, or ignore it. Because if they do, next time I am home to visit family, I will report it again. How many times of this person, these people, being reported, can they ignore? Even if it is only me doing it, they will have to listen at some time, and take action of it, right?

I can forgive him, maybe, for the harm he cause me. I can not forgive him for what he do to others. And for me to forgive do not mean that he do not need to face the consequences of his actions. So if I must report him every year, or two or three times a year, until they do something, I think I just will have to do that.

(edited to add) I have considered also making it a media issue. I feel that is beneath my character, and not dignified. But if necessary, perhaps that will be next step. The ignoring of the report, that is not tolerable.

Andrei
 
Andrei, it is unthinkable that they take no action, putting others also at risk. I take it that the report was in your own Country, where possibly it is swept under the carpet.
I say, good for you reporting everything. We all support you. The media may be another option, as humiliating as it will be for you, I hope they will carry the story.
This must be hell you are going through,
take care,

ste
 
Andrei,

You never cease to amaze me with your strength and resilience...

I am very sorry if your country do nothing of your first report - I hope that if you and friend and perhaps maybe even others he hurt are strong enough to keep reporting it that they will have no choice but to take notice and do something of it...(I know here in U.S. media would grab onto it if there was 3 or more people to report against him)

Do not give up - you are fighting for the side of what is good, right, and just. I know that you are not looking for revenge but he should be held accountable for his actions - especialy if he might be hurting others

I find it sad that here in U.S., in state that I live in, that it is too late for me to report my Uncle and have anything happen (statute of limitations crap) - I have been feeling more of lately that he need to be accountable for what he do to me (I do have slight feeling that he might have done such things with others after me before he got married) - got to do more investigation before I do anything more...

I wish you only the best in all you do,

TJ jeff
 
Andrei you are really taking your life back and for that I have nothing but the greatest admiration.

I would only ask that you consider yourself above all else in this. To go public can be very risky for some of us. The thing to remember is that while we may be the star of the moment for the media their attention will soon turn to other things. Be sure that you are totally grounded and have the full support of those who love you.

I can understand your reasons I just ask that you be cautious in your approch. I have gone public in a limited way but have stayed purposely away from the media to this point. One of my reasons is that some of my clients when I was hustler are still alive, another is that some I acted out with are still around and finally many of my friends are totally unaware of my past. To go public can be scary if you do not have firm support from family. But whatever you do you must know that I support you 500%
 
You know how I feel on this. I will support whatever you choose to do, and I am proud of you for being willing to even consider reporting this again. My strongest encouragement to you is to remain safe, in whatever you do.

Leosha
 
(((((((((((('Droshka))))))))))))

You have more strength than I do. You're willing to pin this b*****d to the wall come Hell or high water. I'm not ready for that yet.

If you need someone for support, or to be an "outside agitator" for the media (I think national pride will make officials do things they won't normally do. Or national shame), tell me.

Anything I can do for you, my friend, I will.

Peace and love,

Scot
 
Andrei - in my time here, I have noticed how much strength you have gained. It warms my heart to see your progress. I am proud that you are taking the action you are - you are a strong man.

Best wishes ..Rik
 
A NEWS OF HOPE
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Defrocked priest sentenced to 12 to 15 years for child rape, 15 Feb 2005

CAMBRIDGE, Mass. -- A judge sentenced Paul Shanley on Tuesday to 12 to 15 years in prison for child rape, condemning the defrocked priest for using his revered status to prey on a vulnerable little boy.
Shanley, one of the most notorious figures in the Boston Archdiocese's clergy sex abuse scandal, was convicted last week of repeatedly raping and fondling the boy at suburban parish in the 1980s, beginning when he was 6 years old.

The sentencing was seen as an important milestone by victims who packed the courtroom to watch the once-popular priest receive his punishment. As a wobbly Shanley was led from the courtroom in handcuffs, many in the audience burst into applause and one man called out "Goodbye."

WE SHALL OVERCOME SOMEDAY...
 
Is there another agency you can report him to? Some one like a regional police rather than local. Or maybe if some of the abuse took place in a different town, you could report it locally there. That way you'd have more of a chance finding someone who wouldn't ignore it.

Jason
 
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