Regarding "Nao"

Regarding "Nao"
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Lloydy

Registrant
The "Nao family" have been exposed as the work of a fraudster.
There is an explanation, and somewhere to voice your opinion, on the Male Survivors Forum.
Please feel free to go there.

https://www.malesurvivor.org/cgi-local/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=003466

I would however like to thank everyone for showing there usual unconditional support towards "Nao" - It's something that we should all feel proud of doing, even if we have been betrayed.

Thanks
Dave
 
Dave - after reading the postings in survivors. I had to go & play my guitar...that helped.

I had pictured myself being Nao with loads of support around him & thinking how much better that was than when I had none!

Pictured him going for more abuse....it was all lies!
 
Dave

Thank you for inviting us to come read and respond in Survivors, I'd like to respond here though since I am NOT ABOUT stepping on people's boundaries and violating other people's privacy, and since I am comfortable enough with myself AS I AM to feel compassion and sorrow for others without having to go all up where I am not needed inventing some sick parallel drama just so that everyone can know how much I cried with them.

For all of you real, struggling, growing, surviving men out there who are trying to make yourselves and your world better, if it means anything to you, I have cried with you, I have tried to listen and learn and send what positive energy I have your way, I have carried your words with me through the day, but I have always tried to do it in the most respectful and grateful way that I know, because I have nothing but respect and gratitude for what the majority of you do here.

Your community means a great deal to me; it shows me what strength and life there is beyond extreme suffering. It gives me hope that someone I dearly love can find that life as well. And it makes me sick that that gift that you all have given me and so many others could be exploited and twisted by some selfish sad excuse for an author.

By the way, if she's reading: Do you see what these men would have given you freely? Do you see now what you missed the whole time you were busy playing, yes, I said PLAYING NOT DOING RESEARCH, here? You want to write a book about a boy whose life ends badly so that others can try to avoid this end? ARE YOU FOR REAL? Don't you think that the people who have ACTUALLY SHARED AND SUFFERED HERE tried their very best to AVOID all the crap that happened to them? Why don't you take a lead from the courageous gentlemen here and focus on surviving, thriving, overcoming? Well I guess it's not as much fun to play a boy who survives and overcomes as it is to play a boy who needs hours of comfort now is it? Sick.

Once more I would like to say thank you to all of the diligent and generous men who give their time, skill, and selves to MaleSurvivor and to this discussion board.

SAR
 
I'm with SAR. I'll stay right here.

I have so many thoughts running around my head right now, none of them are making much sense. Yeah, just like this whole situation. This isn't gonna be very "Pollyanna-like"...sorry.

The whole "apology" is such a bunch of bull.

The guys have pretty much said it all, but from my "outsider" perspective, here's a few observations..."Heather".

I don't know who you think you are Miss "Heather". No matter how many different ways you try to "justify" your deceit, it just doesn't fly. All you had to do was ASK. See this F&F forum? None of us knew what we were doing when we came here. THIS is how we learn how to help the people we care about. We read here a lot, we ask questions, THEN, if we are REALLY interested, we go to the sites that the guys recommend, like on PTSD and maybe even pick up a college textbook explaining how the mind works...or even take the CLASS!! THEN we may even talk to a therapist ourselves, to gain understanding of what the person is going through, and the way OUT. Wow! What a concept! Something actually constructive! THAT is research. There is no shortcut. You learn NOTHING by "pretending" to be something you are not, unless you are working on being a better liar. YOU made things up. They aren't real. How does that make a better "book"? You still don't know what you're talking about, and no matter how "real" you think your character is, it isn't. It's just your perception. You did the talking when you should have done the listening.

I think you'd better stick around the dentist office. You need to have that foot of yours wired permanently into your mouth so you can't do any more damage. If you know so well what it feels like to be hurt and betrayed, then why would you willingly and so freely do it with no regard to barging in and stomping all over people in THEIR sanctuary?

"I didn't mean to hurt anyone." Wow. Where have we heard that before? How nice that people helped you with issues from your own abuse while you were busy abusing them all over again. These are PEOPLE. Real live people with real live feelings. People who deserve to be treated with respect.

WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU CAN'T PROMISE YOU WILL NEVER INFILTRATE ANOTHER MESSAGE BOARD??? What are you out of your mind???? Haven't you learned a THING??? If you have to hurt people to "get the job done" then you're automatically WRONG. If you hurt ONE person, you fail. You are a failure before you have even begun. I've heard about writers like you before. They work for "The Enquirer."

Do you have ANY IDEA what it takes for these guys to actually trust people who REALLY ARE trustworthy? Some have barely begun to reach out, and you just smashed their hand in the door. I hope you are proud of yourself. You have deeply hurt someone who means the world to me. I can't even begin to express my feelings on that. Go to the zoo and throw a rock at a bear cub. Then observe the mama bear. That about sums it up.


I wouldn't walk across the street to spit on that "novel".

Maybe the next book you write should be on integrity. Make sure you do the research this time. Lord knows you need it.

Lynn
 
To Heather, Nao, whoever the hell you are,

How dare you invade what should be a safe place for these gentlemen. If you knew anything about the human race, you would know that men in general have a difficult time talking about their feelings and emotions. What you did is inexcusable and unforgivable. Do you have any idea what kind of damage you may have done?! These wonderful men have been struggling every day of their lives and it takes more courage than most people will ever have to come here and talk about what happened to them and how theyre trying to heal. You and your sick, twisted game may have cost them the only support they trusted.

There is absolutely NO EXCUSE to what you did. Heres something to think about: that book you want to write will NEVER be published. Ever heard of a little thing called Karma?

You should be ashamed of yourself.

Tabor
 
To the ladies here.

I would not normally say anything here, because I have always felt that women somehow "knew" I was damaged good. My mother was a part of that. I also want to respect the fact that I can't know how you feel, so I shouldn't intrude. But this one time I have to.

It never ocurred to me that you might actually support me. Maybe other guys would, but what woman in her right mind would want a guy who had been raped by another guy, even if I was a small boy.

Your courage and your concern have moved me to tears. What that little bitch did is actually having some positive effects. I am seeing that I, as a survivor, am not the only one who understands just how difficult, painful and excruciating it is to finally have to talk about it. I understand that you who have to deal with the fallout of what has happened to us pay a great price too.

You ladies are true ladies. The person in your life who you are supporting is very fortunate.

Thank you for just being there.

Marc
 
WELL GUIZE,
my gut reaction got posted in the other thread -- sorry was reading it saw that dave said to add in and well i just took off exploding as it may... so if it was out of place sorry move it backhere...
But to our Partners who post here -- How in the hell do we do it? Survive and Thrive and SUPPORT everyday when there are the evils that lurk out there such as this "heather" -- one day at a time , one moment at a time I geuss and with tons of prayers, good vibes, best wishes, hugs, for each and everyone of us alike.
For us as partners we deal with not only the monsters that lurk constantly in our partners minds and sometimes behaviors we deal with the ingrained triggers and outside triggers.
We have each other as well as we have our partners - and even some confidants on the outside world who help us along.... sometimes its minute by minute ---
I am so crushed emotionally by the damage of this supposed poster "heather" has / had the capability of doing.
I do hope that those who are in the position of overseeing this site do take legal action against this "heather" -- if need be to bring a class action suit for the pain "heather" has caused and could have caused/ damaged to this wonderful site....
a place that not only can I as a partner have some understanding, but more importantly a safe haven for my partner....
I have more to post directly at "Heather", but am working on it....
For our Families and Friends -- let us remain strong and supportive not only of our partners but of each other....
Best to each of us, Sammy
 
Lloydy asked that you respond on the other post, and that is fine with me.
Thank you all for being such wonderful people.

"Heather", my thoughts of you are on the other post, the ones that I could post without them being edited.
 
***caution contains triggers and cussing***
This is the first portion of my response to "Heather" or nao or whoeever the fuck they want to be or are called:
***CAUTION WHAT I AM ABOUT TO POST MAY BE EXTREMELY OFFENSIVE***
I ALSO HAVE QUOTED FROM OTHER POSTINGS, BY OTHER POSTERS SO AS TO ADD MY COMMENTS TO THOSE POSTS IF THIS IS OUT OF LINE OR INAPPROPRIATE PLEASE FEEL FREE TO DELETE OR REMOVE THIS POST. I RESPOND FROM MY OWN GUT, KNOWLEDGE AND REACTION TO THIS:
I AM HIGHLY OFFENDED BOTH AS A SURVIVOR AND AS A PARTNER TO A SURVIVOR THIS IS DIRECTED SOLEY AT THE NAO/ HEATHER POSTER ----- ***PLEASE NOTE THOSE WHO DID THE RESEARCH TO VERIFY THIS POSTER I GIVE GREAT THANKS AND OWE A GREAT GRATITUDE TO. THERE IS NEVER ENOUGH THANK YOUS AVAILABLE FOR YOUR TIME ENERGY AND CONCERN, COMMITMENT TO SUCH AN ISSUE, FROM THE DEEPEST OF MY SOUL, I OWE YOU GRATITUDE, AND MANY TIMES MY LIFE OR THE SAVING MY PARTNER AND CHILDRENS LIVES.
WITH MUCH PEACE FOR EACH OF US SAMMY
Please note my comments are surrounded by **such as this,sammy**


To the members of the MaleSurvivor board:

Many of you know me as Nao and have reached out to me to help me.
Unfortunately, at this point, I really have to come clean.****I CONSIDER YOU FILTH NOW AND A FULL BLOWN PERPETRATOR WHO MUST BE PROSECUTED TO THE FULL EXTENT OF THE LAW, THERE IS NO WAY FOR YOU TO BECOME CLEAN. My name isn't
Nao (it's Heather), I'm not 14 (I'm 22) and I'm not a boy (though I am still
a victim of SA).****I SERIOUSLY DOUBT THAT ANY TRUE KNOWING VICTIM OF SA WOULD KNOWINGLY PURPOSEFULLY ABUSE ANOTHER SURVIVOR FOR PERSONAL GAIN OTHER THAN TO GROOM AND THEN REABUSE A SURVIVOR = YOU RE NOT A SURVIVOR OF SA IN ANY FORM YOU ARE A LIAR WITH A MENTAL ILLNESS** I currently work in a dental office to make ends meet, ***YOU ARE PRACTICING IN A LICENSED HEALTH FIELD, HELD TO LICENSING STANDARDS BY A LICENSING BOARD WHICH INCLUDES ETHICS, -- YOU SHOULD LEAVE THIS PRACTICE WILLINGLY OR BE AT LEAST OF RISK OF BEING REPORTED FOR YOUR ETHICS VIOLATIONS*** but
really I'm a struggling author trying to get a book published and was posing
at your site as the character in my novel to gain information for my story.**THERE ARE LEGAL AND ETHICAL WAYS TO GET WRITINGS PUBLISHED USE THEM, STUDY THE ETHICS OF WRITINGS, FICTION VS NON FICTION & STUDY THE CASE OF THE NEWSPAPER AUTHOR WHO WAS SUED FOR MISPRERESENTATION AS A HEROIN ADDICT TO WRITE A NON/FICTION / FICTION STORY AND WHAT LEGALLY HAPPENED IN HER CASE****
While I have experienced abuse myself, I didn't know how one would
experience it through male eyes.****A LINE OF BULLSHIT, AS A SURVIVOR OF SA IT IS NOT A FAR REACH TO RESEARCH AND UNDERSTAND THE MALE ASPECT OF SA WITHOUT ABUSING MALE SURVIVORS, THIS ACTION MAKES YOU A PERP SOME THERAPIST SPECIALIZING IN WORKING WITH PERPS SEEK THEM OUT, GET HELP PROTECT THE INNOCENT, YOU AND YOUR STATEMETS DO NOT MAKE YOU INNOCENT YOU PLANNED AND EXPECTED AN OUTCOME = PERPETRATOR*** Part of the reason for the novel is to let
people know that male sexual abuse does exist and when a boy experiences
that, it can have devastating effects.****LEAVE IT TO PROFESSIONALS TO DO THIS JOB, NOT SOME CRAZED MADE UP PERSONALITY SEEKING ATTENTION YOUR ACTIONS IN THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT KEEPS THE SECRETS AND MOVEMENTS FORWARD IN HEALING IN SUCH A SLOW STATE OF MOVING FORWARD AND HEALING AND WORKING, YOU UN DO WHAT REAL PROFESSIONALS DO AND HAVE SUCCEEDED IN DOING IN SMALL STEPS *** My hope is that the boys or men who
read my novel will see how badly this character's life turns out and will
hopefully seek help for themselves to avoid such an end.***THE MEN ALREADY KNOW HOW THEIR LIVES TURN OUT YOU STUPID BITCH AND THE BOYS WHO ARE SEEKING HELP DO NOT NEED YOUR UNSKILLED AND FICTIONAL ENDING TO SEND SOME SORT OF DISTORTED OR FUCKED UP ENDING == YOU COULD BE THE CATALYST TO PUSH A SURVIVOR, TO ACT ON SUICIDE, == DEATH OF YOUR RESPONSIBILITY BUT YOU WOULD NOT SEE A JUSTICE COURT FOR YOUR ACTIONS OF CO CONSPIRACY TO MURDER****
So why pose? Why not simply come onto a message board and ask advice as an
author? That is a problem - most people when dealing with serious things
(such as SA, drug abuse, HIV and other issues that come up in the novel) do
not want to share with an author.****BULL SHIT YOU DID NOT TRY AND THIS IS NOT TRUE AND RE READ THE FUCKING WEBSITE THERE ARE MANY WHO HAVE SHARED THEIR STORIES PUBLICLY, READ A FEW DOCUMENTARIES AND NOVELS (TRY THE LOCAL LIBRARY STUPID BITCH) MANY WILL SHARE AND MANY CONITINUE TO WANT TO SHARE WHY NOT .. ASK. YOU FAILED TO**** They will tell this person "Go to a
library for your research!" It isn't that simple. A library book cannot
tell you how it feels to go through some of this stuff.**BULLSHIT, YOU DIDNT LOOK HARD ENOUGH, YOU DIDNT RESEARCH THIS SITE ENOUGH, AND IF YOU REALLY ARE A SURVIVOR OF SA IT ISNT A FAR REACH, AND DID YOU SEEK INFO FROM A LICENSED COUNSELOR WHO SPECIALIZES IN MALE SA? YOU OBVIOUSLY GOT A LINE INTO SPEAK TO KEN SINGER WHY DIDNT YOU SCHEDULE A MEETING WITH HIM I AM SURE HE WOULD HAVE SHARED NOT ONLY HIS VAST KNOWLEDGE OF THIS AREA BUT REFERRED YOU TO MANY OTHER PROFESSIONALS WHO WOULD HAVE SHARED LIKE INFO*** A book can tell you
facts and figures - how many children are abused, what is the normal age,
etc. It cannot tell you what is in the heart of an abused child's soul or
what goes through his mind when he cries. That can only come from talking
to victims.****YOUR STATEMENT REMINDS ME STRICTLY OF THE FEMALE SURVIVOR AND I WHO COINED A LITTLE PHRASE THE MORBID ALLURE --- THOSE WHO LOVE TO HEAR THE GOD DAMN GRUESOME DETAILS FOR THEIR OWN PERSONAL THRILLS --- DID YOU GET OFF ON THE DETAILS TRUSTED TO YOU ? *** The problem is, victims will seldom talk to authors, so our
only choice to gain information on sensitive issues is infiltration.**STILL BULLSHIT, AND IF IT IS TRUE YOU ARE A SURVIVOR THEN YOU KNOW JUST THE WORD INFILITRATION IS ONE THAT DENOTES DISTRUST AND LIES, AND REABUSE SO FUCK YOUR EXCUSE WITH NO LUBE BITCH!***So why not go to a support group - I'm a girl. They're not going to let me
in a male support group.**YES AND RIGHTLY SO DUMBY, IF YOU REALLY ARE A GIRL GO FOR YOUR OWN SUPPOSED SA ISSUES SEPARATE THE TWO!**** My only choice was to do it online.***COMPLETE EXCUSE, SOUNDS LIKE SOME EXCUSE A PERP WOULD USE TO BLAME IT ON THE VICTIM BUT HE/SHE WAS 9 YEARS OLD AND SO SEXY IN HIS / HER UNDEROO SUPERMAN PAJAMAS.. F UCK YOU BITCH!***
There was another reason - by posing as my character I was able to put the
feelings he has in the novel out there and see if they're genuine. Put him
to the test as a character - is he believable? I found out that he is and
that's important.****YOU ARE SO FULL OF BULLSHIT I AM SURPRISED YOU WERENT THE ONE SUED BY THE CATTLE FARMERS INSTEAD OF OPRAH WINFREY === ALL YOU HAD TO DO WAS READ THE SURVIVOR STORIES FUCK YOU AGAIN !***
I was informed that some people thought it sounded as though I was looking
for cyber-sex, as I had said to someone on the board, I'm not even 100%
clear on what cyber-sex IS!***BULLLSHIT, ITS SELF EXPLANATORY TERM & IF THEY FELT THAT IS WHAT YOU WERE LOOKING FOR I WOULD TRUST THAT THEIR FLAGS AND GUT RESPONSES WERE PROBABLY EXACT AND RIGHT ON PERPS GET THEIR THRILLS FROM THAT SHIT TOO!*** So I'm sorry if I got too detailed and I'm
sorry if people thought that was my intention, it wasn't at all.**YOURE ONLY SORRY YOU GOT CAUGHT BUT I AM NOT SORRY YOU GOT CAUGHT***
As a novice author I broke the first rule of infiltration - I got too
emotionally involved.*** I GET THE FEELING YOU WERE FULFILLING YOUR MORBID ALLURE NEED. YOU LACK EMOTION OR YOU WOULD NOT HAVE EVEN THOT OF SOMETHING SO FUCKING EVIL AS TO HURT THOSE WHO ARE ALREADY STRUGGLING AND STILL INJURED AND AGAIN FUCK YOU BITCH*** My original plan was to post the survivor story and
just sit back and read the board, but I went too far. I cried with you
guys, for you guys. **** YOU CRIED YOU GOT CAUGHT AND LIKE MANY PREDATORES AND PERPS, YOU LACK IMPULSE CONTROL == YOURE A PERP***I prayed for all of you.***I DONT WANT YOUR FUCKING PRAYERS, WHO DO YOU PRAY TO. RATHER YOU PREY UPON IS THE MEANING*** You men on the board are all
so strong and I do wish you all the very best in your recoveries and
healing. I'm sorry I hurt you and betrayed you, especially those of you who
spent hours talking to me thinking they were helping a hurting child.***A HURTING CHILD, GOD SEND YOU TO HELL FOR PORTRAYING SOMEONE WHO IS EVERY MOMENT OF EVERYDAY SOMEWHERE IN THIS WORLD WHO IS IN DESPERATE NEED OF REAL HELP AND YOU SUCCEEDED IN VALIDATING WHAT SO MANY OF US HEARD GROWING UP YOURE JUST BLOWING THINGS OUT OF PROPORTION FUCK YOU C**T!!! I
know how it feels to be hurt and betrayed, it's not a good feeling and I'm
very sorry.***NO YOU DONT IF YOU DID YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE DONE WHAT YO DID*** I never set out to hurt anyone but I did. Many times I felt
guilty because I knew all of you were pouring out your heart and soul on the
website and I was only doing research.***THERE WAS NO RESEARCH YOU WERE GETTING YOUR FUCKED UP JOLLIES OFF OF SOMEONE ELSES PAIN***
Believe me, as a religious person, I've felt guilty about lying to all of
you. It hasn't been easy, many times I've thought of coming clean and
didn't until it was necessary.***WHAT RELIGION DO YOU PRACTICE SO THOSE OF US WHO HAVE BEEN INJURED NOT ONLY BY OUR RESEPECTIVE RELIGIONS, BUT OUR SPIRITS DAMAGED CAN AVOID THE LIVING SHIT OUT OF THE ONE YOU SO CLAIM TO HAVE AS A RELIGIOUS PERSON AGAIN FUCK YOU***
I promise that no one's name will be used in the novel, I also will not
quote any specific person word for word and no one else's survivor stories
will be written in there either. You will all remain confidential and after
writing this, I will delete the false e-mail accounts I have set up and
throw away any e-mail address of yours that I've obtained along the way.*** I WOULD SUSPECT THAT WITH YOU PROBABLY READING EVERYTHING THAT HAS BEEN POSTED IN RESPONSE TO YOUR CONFESSION YOU SHOULD THINK STRONGLY ABOUT PUTTING ANYTHING INTO PRINT --- LAWS CAN BE ENFORCED, AND IF THERE IS A WAY TO PROSECUTE YOU SOMEONE WILL FIND A WAY TO LEGALLY PROTECT THOSE WHO NEED IT THE MOST, ONES WHO ARE VICITIMIZED REPEATEDLY.. THROW YOUR SUPPOSED DAMN BOOK AWAY AND GO DO SOMETHING ELSE WITH YOUR LIFE LIKE GET MENTAL HELP****
However, the lessons you've taught me, everything I've learned from being at
the site, will be a part of the book in my own words.**THEY ARENT YOUR WORDS IF YOU USE THE INFO FROM THIS SITE*** It is my hope that
these words will reach other survivors and they will begin the healing
process. Nao isn't real in the flesh and blood sense but because of the
valuable knowledge I've gained from all of you, he will seem real to those
reading the novel.***WHICH IS TOO FUCKING BAD IN SOME SENSE, HEY STUPID HERES AN IDEA, GO DOWN AND RESEARCH SOME OF THE CASES IN FAMILY COURT, OR GO SIT IN ON SOME FAMILY COURT SESSIONS, READ SOME CASE FILES FROM THE POLICE DEPT. THERE ARE REAL REAL VERY REAL REAL CHILDREN IN NEED AND ARE LIVING THESE LIVES. READ A LOCAL FUCKING NEWSPAPER ITS ALL OVER THE MEDIA SPILLING OUT WHAT HAPPENS --- YOU DIDNT NEED TO MAKE A GOD DAMN THING UP.. ITS ALL RIGHT THERE VALIDATED ALREADY YOUR JUST A PERP LOOKING FOR MATERIAL FOR MORE OF A POWER RUSH . STICK IT ALL UP YOUR FUCKING EDITING HOLE***
Believe it or not, you have helped me deal with issues of my own abuse and I
thank you. I do hope that the advice I've given people here has helped them
as well, because it was sincere.***WARNING TO ALL WHO MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE GOTTEN SOME ADVICE IT CAME FROM A PERP AND A LIAR DO NOT BE VICTIMIZED AGAIN**** I am still praying for all of you.**STOP I DONT WANT YOUR KIND OF PRAYERS***
I won't ever post here again but I can't promise that I'll never infiltrate
another message board.***THANKS FOR THE WARNING MANY OF US VISIT AND POST ON OTHER BOARDS FOR SUPPORT, WELL BE WATCHING FOR YOUR SORRY UGLY ASS, AND WILL DO OUR BEST TO BLOW YOUR COVER EVEN THEN..*** Unfortunately, it's just part of the research job. ***LYING IS NOT A PART OF RESEARCH GO BACK TO RESEARCH CLASS 101 GOTTA HAVE CONTROLS AND NOT LIE TO SKEW THE ANSWERSDUH ANYTHING YOU SURMISE PRINT OR PUT OUT AS KNOWN OR VALIDATED IS A LIE AND BULLSHIT THEREFORE GIVING THE PERPS MORE POWER TO KEEP ON RAPING AND PERPING GO JOIN THEM AND BURN IN HELL WITH THEM****
Writing is not an easy task; it's especially hard when dealing with serious
issues.**THEN STOP IT*** I will promise though, that should I infiltrate, I will try my
hardest first to gain the information without having to resort to that.***REMEMBER YOU NOW ARE BEING WATCHED BY A LARGER COMMUNITY, THE WEB IS VERY BIG AND WORD TRAVELS FAST WITH SHIT LIKE YOU PULLED***
I ask that no one attempt to contact me.** OF COURSE NOT!!! ALL PERPS LIKE TO HIDE AFTER THEY DO THEIR DEED, IF I WAS YOU ID HIDE PERMENANTLY.**** I will not contact any of you
again. If any of you one day pick up my novel***YOU DONT HAVE A NOVEL YOURE A LIAR*** I hope you will be able to
recognize the valuable information contained within it and that you will
feel even slightly happy that you may have helped someone begin to heal.***HAPPINESS IN HELPING SOMEONE HEAL CAN BEGOT FROM THIS SITE HERE WHERE IT IS SAFE AND MONITORED TO FIND AND EXPOSE SHITBAGS LIKE YOU***Again I'm very sorry that I've hurt people here. I wish you all the best in
your recoveries and healing and I will continue praying for all of you.
Peace to you and may God bless you,
Heather ***YOURE ONLY SORRY YOU GOT CAUGHT YOU BITCH C**T, AND IF YOU REALLY BELIEVE IN OUR CREATOR THEN YOU WILL GO AWAY AND SEEK MUCH NEEDED MENTAL HEALTH HELP, RUN DONT WALK TO YOUR NEAREST MENTAL HEALTH FACILITY**** ---- SAMMY
 
Good one Wifey !
My spiritual beliefs stopped me on the other forum to say just the same but........being just human (and with faults) the under current was just the same ;) ! God, reading you was just like I was screaming the words myself.
Having said that I must tell Cahetel my guardian angel, sorry to feel that way and please go and help that poor frustrated woman ! :)
To all of you guys here, I want to send you love, comfort, support, care, and all the sweet stuff like hugging ;) (to heal your pains).
Don't let that woman turn you away from your healing and from trusting again because YES, I am telling you as a survivor myself, some people are VERY trustworthy.
Plein d'amour et de lumire vous tous........
Caro :D
 
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GRRRRRRR!!!!!

I COULD JUST SPIT!!!!

I have nothing to add to the comments of my Sisters EXCEPT: let's keep our eyes open for the "publication" of this piece of trash & make DAMN sure it gets exposed for what it is!

Knowing the little that I do about the publishing world, the Little Idjet doesn't have much of a chance anyway.

BLECH!
 
You all are the finest people I've ever "met" and I NEVER thought of you being the same as this bitch! Not a word I like to toss around with you guys, but that's what she is.

She is also dead to me.

But you, my wonderful sisters, supporters, and family members, aren't. You are one of the two reasons I keep coming back here.

Never doubt what you mean to the brothers. Or to me personally. Sammy, Lynn, Caro, SAR, Jenesha (sorry that I still haven't gotten the knack of your name. Forgive me? :rolleyes: ), the list goes on.

I have no doubts about you. I trust you all and I LOVE you all.

Peace and love,

Scot
 
Hello all,

I haven't been back here for awhile, and just popped in this evening. Having just reviewed the posts on what's been going on, I have to say that this is OUTRAGEOUS!

I cannot believe that someone who professes to have been abused herself could possibly think that it was Ok to defraud and mislead fellow survivors.

I seriously think that she should be turned into the appropriate ISP people, or the FCC for phone fraud or whatever way she can be pursued. This is not some teenager playing games with people for kicks - this is someone who intended to PROFIT from the information and personal stories that you all offered to her! She wants to make MONEY off of your suffering! And she as much as said that she would do it again.

This is not investigative journalism, this is emotional manipulation for PERSONAL GAIN, and I think it is despicable!
 
Heather you said: "Part of the reason for the novel is to let people know that male sexual abuse does exist and when a boy experiences
that, it can have devastating effects."

NO KIDDING!!!! I'm so angry over this abuse of trust to this board and everyone in it,and your impersonation. This is an out right lie and you are a liar.

Thank you to this board for investigating and finding the truth. Heather you have no idea the kind of harm you can cause people. Get a clue and be honest and forthright.
 
Originally posted by Lloydy:
I would however like to thank everyone for showing there usual unconditional support towards "Nao" - It's something that we should all feel proud of doing, even if we have been betrayed.

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I agree!

While I can blow this off to "net pranks" (hey with such an anonymous medium such as the 'net there's bound to be a few cranks from time to time) I never realized how, and how much this kind of stuff could hurt survivors...

I think instead of anger I feel more pity for this person.. as a partner of a survivor I know full well that even for the friends and families, dealing with this issue can be hell on earth from time to time...why anyone would feel compelled to ant to bring this on to their life when they dont already have it in their life is f***ing twisted if you ask me. Someone's got to be pretty hurting to make that shit up for that long.

PAS
 
Originally posted by doctorfrau:


--this is someone who intended to PROFIT from the information and personal stories that you all offered to her! She wants to make MONEY off of your suffering!
__________________________________________________

I have also been thinking along these lines. I wonder just how much of "Heather" darling's novel will be plagerized from postings here at MS. There are some gifted writers here.

Now that I've recovered from my sadness and anger, the arrogance of Miss "Heather's" patronizing effort to do everyone here a favor by publicizing male sexual abuse in her first (she imagines) best-selling novel makes me laugh. What a twirp. She thinks no one knows that boys are SAed. So she's going to tell the world about it in detail no doubt. I began to have doubts about "Nao" when he went over to his perp's house to try and get him to confess. Then while reading the rape scene more skepticism set in. This didn't sound like a 14 year-old boy to me. There was too much detail. Someone took too much pleasure in writing that scene. The part about the perp taking pictures for the very first time and thereby incriminating himself was a little too neat. But, you know, it could be true. It would have been unforgiveable for me to have expressed any doubts. If this site is going to work, we have to accept each other's posts as true no matter how incredible they may seem to us. Ninety-nine point nine percent of the people who come here are genuine. We can't let the one-tenth of one percent who aren't ruin our confidence and trust in each other's sincerity and reality. So let's bury this corpse, but keep our eyes peeled for this "novel" even if we have to wait a few years.

Mary
 
This is the last thing I'm going to write about this subject, because this hag is truly dead to me.

Mary, yes, I agree, let's bury the corpse. But I do have my eyes out on other web sites, and since I do know a thing or two about writing, if I suspect she's running the game agin, I will STOMP DOWN ON THAT HAG WITH ALL THE POWER I CAN.

She thinks she's going to be the new "Messiah" for male abuse? Well, let her. Just let me be the one who pounds in the nails!

Peace and love to all my genuine brothers and sisters. no hatred for you guys from me. Just love.

Scot
 
I didnt undertand why everyone was asking so many questins when I first came on here, kinda accusing me almost of lying I thought, I was so offended I almost left the site, but I came right in the middle of this NAO thing. I see know why all you survivors must be pissed and now going to be hard to trust new people on your website, but its gonna be hard, but most of them actually do need help, so try to give them the benefit, we dont want to not help someone who needs it incase we just suspect something awkward, they may really really need the help. What that girl did blows my mind away, Is she going to court, how can she do that, I wont date do that, but not hard to publicly humiliate her, do you know her first and last name??? that way it will be easier to keep up to whether she is got a book published or not. I will keep my eyes open for if any book, but cant she be sued to prevent her from writing the book.......cant we get her BEFORE she writes the book???????
 
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