For a lot of us here, that mail icon was for what we assumed to be for "private" discussion among other members & friends. While MS does claim that "all content" is subject to moderation, it then negates that by holding out a mail icon for "direct conversation" with others which leads us to believing that yes the open boards are moderated, but surely mail as we all know is/should be private. There is also no specific verbiage or warning that our direct conversations or mail are subject to uninvited prying eyes. I believe that this should be addressed ASAP by changing the mail icon to something else and add an advisory message to all the private or direct conversations that they are a moderated discussion and NOT private. Nobody should feel tricked or spied on here, especially when privacy & trust is such a huge deal to most of us. If the moderation of private discussions here is truly for safety sake, then MS should fix this so that there is no misunderstanding as to privacy here for that same sake of safety.