Pressures of life

Pressures of life
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endlessjourney

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Life is plethra of obstacles and emotional rollercoasters. Sometimes you can't even feel the ground your standing on. Still I wonder, is this pain a pain from childhood abuse, or is it just pain from everyday life. They say that being sexually abused as a child has a profound effect on every aspect of ones life as they get older. However, you can't blame all of your issues on childhood sexual abuse. It's so damn confusing sometimes. I wish I could understand the concept I did when I was a young child before all of this garbage I had to endure. The idea "just live". I miss the days when I didn't have the bad habit of analyzing everything I say and do and analyzing others as well. I'm getting better at freeing myself of that but it gets hard and confusing. Damn, I guess I'll "just live". The answers will come, troubles will pass. I am Jason. and that's good enough. :D
 
I think its a little bit of both. I have realized that a lot of the problems that I face today, was fact of what happen to me as a child. I know I cant blame what happen for everything. But it seems everything comes back to that. In Some way or form.
If you ever seen Shawshank Redemption this quote says it all.
"Get busy living or Get busy dieing"
The answers will come, just keep asking the question and the right questions.
I think some people might think he is lame but he makes great points about life and to approve life.
Anthony Robbins
I would recommend him to everybody, A good friend of mine gave me his Personal Power Cds. I listened to the first 10 days, and a lot of things in there has helped me. I think I might finish the program and see what else it could help me with.
Life is full of obstacles, but I really think they make us stronger!!
 
Jason, 23,

It is true: we can't blame every pitfall and setback in our lives on what happened to us when we were kids. But at least we can reduce our feelings of failure and inadequacy to levels that others feel who have NOT been abused. Working on these things doesn't give us redemption, sure, but it ultimately frees us from the burdens cast on us by abuse and allows us to lead our lives without feelings of being hijacked by abuse memories and emotions all the time.

What we do with that freedom and peace is up to us. But I am looking forward to the challenge! ;)

Much love,
Larry

(edited for stupid typos)
 
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