Positive!

[Aden]

I hate to be positive. There is so much that needs to be bitched about that spending time on affirmation seems like a waste of time.

However...

Some of you guys have been so kind and understanding that I cannot continue to vent my bile until I give you proper thanks. The most striking thing about you is that as a group you are more open and caring than any I have ever been included in. Your goal of personal growth thru common understanding is as noble as any, including saving the whales.

My respect is given to all of you who struggle while serving, who share and uplift, who care openly and nurture the needy. God bless you every one!

While I am often foolish and afraid, it is my sincere desire to serve in your ranks as a friend, mentor, and student. All I ask is that if you are offended by what I say, try re-reading it with a sense of humor. I never mean to offend, but sometimes I aim at a chuckle and miss the mark.

Forgive me when I am tasteless or seem insensitive. I'll forgive you for some of your lessor faults. Think well of me, if you can, since I mean only good for you. And don't be afraid to give me a good swift kick in the ass if I get out of line.

Sorry about this, but so far this morning I havn't thought of anything that I really want to gripe about. But give me time. In an hour or two I'll be back with some major hell raising.

Till then, Love

Aden

 

[Leonatomi]

Thanks Aden, that was really nice to read. It's good to find a place where you can be yourself and communicate with people who really understand and want to help.

 

[Dan88]

Haven't though of anything to gripe about? lol

Well, you did me a service with just posting that. It's time for me to stop the pity party and get moving forward again. That was a good reminder.

 

[Bill_1965]

I hate to be positive.

Are you positive about that? Okay, I couldn't help myself.

There is so much that needs to be bitched about that spending time on affirmation seems like a waste of time.

By the same tolken, there is so much that needs affirmination that spending time on bitching seems like a waste of time. There is a happy medium, somewhere. There are things that can be bitched at or applauded, depends on how you chose to look at them. Somethings need a good bitching at. Somethings are just pure aggrevation to bitch at.

My bitching won't stop me from having size 11 feet. But, my bitching can do some good on how I like to get myself into bad relationships, if I apply myself to that mean. Or I can bitch about bad relationships and keep getting into them, just causing me several levels of aggrevation.

Hey, I think I'll give myself a single good swift kick in the sit-upon when I catch myself going there and give myself a nice little pat on the back when I direct myself away from there. That'll work for me.

Take care and give yourself a deserved pat on the back,
Bill