Paying things forward

Paying things forward
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reality2k4

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Let me say this is about what MS is here for.

I think that sometimes we think that our own ways of forgiving and where we are in survival, should be part of anothers way of surviving CSA/SA.

We cannot assume that what works for me, can help others, nor neglect their own survival skills.

Yeah, me talking, and it is me who is the main offender, but I admit it.

I guess that not many of you guys will go to hell, because you got a free pass to Heaven, and guess what! You deserve it, each and everyone of you,

ste
 
ste,

I appreciate everyone's feedback here. I take what I find useful for my own journey through recovery. What I don't use may be helpful for someone else. Everyone must follow their own path. While our stories may be similiar, we are all unique and valuable. We all have gifts that can benefit someone, but not necessarily everyone.

I never take offense to anyone's post even if I may not agree. That's what I like about being here. We can all say our piece and not be judged.

Sunny
 
Ste,

I like your idea of paying it forward - investing time and love back into a community from which we have all gained so much.

Much love,
Larry
 
I think that paying it forward is about how we survive in life.
Maybe its a mask, maybe its just a kind remark, or maybe just show you care.

Its more about saying, hey, I care and stuff like that.

May be was the biggest fault in my life, because maybe I got it totally wrong,

ste
 
"Men who have recovered from boyhood betrayal often develop a lust for life and extraordinary gifts of compassion, empathy, wisdom, and strenght"

Maybe sometimes we care too much about others and trust them too much and we get taken advantaged of and used.

These same traits of caring and trusting can also save lives and help others when they are struggling.

Perhaps you got part of it wrong but not totally wrong.

Aloha, Sunny
 
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