Our land!

[endlessjourney]

No matter what happens, our body is our land! It belongs to us! As an adult, no matter what your sexual preference is, have you ever had someone who wanted to use your body for sexual interaction? Ok, it happens. You go to a bar or some other social gathering and someone is attracted to you. Its not just an attraction but that individual wants nothing more than sex with you. Now, imagine being a young child and having an adult do the same thing to you. You didn't know then what you know now as far as being assertive and resisting that forceful pressure of giving in. Children do not have that capability of saying no and standing their ground for so long when that manipulative adult has weiseled their way into your boundaries through betrayal and projecting a false sense of loyalty to you and maybe those close to you. How could a child fight this! This is just a reminder of why CSA is such a crime inflicted on us. This is not our fault!!!! We tend to vear off of our path and blame ourselves for what has happened to us. We must stay on point and realize what is really going on! This is our body!! Child, adult! It makes no difference! Our bodies belong to us. Period!!!

 

[Hauser]

Well said. I can't help but feel out of place by what you said in some of this though. For instance, I never felt a need to say it wasn't my fault.

I never once blamed myslef for it. I knew when it was happening that it was wrong, even at the age of 9.

Funny how, even though I knew it wasn't my fault, still didn't save me from a future of underachievment, self-loathing, anger, school problems, and an overall inability to progress in life.

 

Your right this is our land, and that latest tirade shows just why we need to be pro-active in facing up to these people.

In my eyes the only normal sexual orientation is that which involves consenting adults.

To profess to lovong a child when the true purpose of said affection is not only base but covert is just morally and ethically wrong.

I think that by deleting the thread MS you have given them a small but important victory, you let them get to us. Provoked censorship which they will play on for sure.

I sugest that anyone who is interested in debating with these people go over to the GUARDIAN and do it there.

People need MS for serious reasons, but as you know know the online pedophile community come here and have been doing for some time.

So - if you say you no longer feel safe, dont kid yourself, you were not safe before.

They've been here as long as I have, I was PM'd by one ages ago asking for comment on an act of molestation.

BLUE RIBBON said he didnt link to child porn. He did indirectly. I did a reverse link seach from a site I found from one of his direct links, and it came up with his blog.

However indirect, reverse link searches do not lie and the law enforcement agencies well know. It can and will be used in evidence.

We need, like I said to be proactive, not passive.

We can not just sit back and let these folk say what they like unchallenged.

BUT - remember flaming someone serves no purpose, rising to the bait doesnt too.

Use reason, logic and good solid arguements, calling someone a s'&k f&'$%(ing Ba$%&$&rd is stooping a bit low however justified you feel.

Think carefully about what you want to say, structure it well and let rip, debate is just that, debate. Not a slagging match.

Correct me if Im wrong, but did blue ribbon actually come out with his real name? I dont think so, which means he has something to hide!

 

And you may like to know that no one has taken up the debate over on the guardian talk boards.

They didnt come for a debate, they're too chicken shit, they came here to bug us, thats all.

Go look for yourself....

Guardian Boards

 

[Thad]

The post concerning Jonathan King has been removed because it has returned to being a vehicle for off-site attacks. As we stated when we previously removed the post, MS does not involve itself with off-site activities especially where it distracts users from the pursuit of recovery.

Since our previous request did not produce the desired result, we are now asking all users to take this activity elsewhere. We will not allow any further discussion of it, since it has endangered the wellbeing of the site and its members. The recent appearance of four of those who came to defend themselves from attacks, brought a totally unacceptable element onto the site which made it unsafe for our users. They have been asked to leave.

If users can not desist from using this site for off-site activity,. they will be asked to take a time out from the site.

As always, please do not discuss moderator actions on the site. Any questions can be sent to me at [email protected]