One thing of strength

[VN]

I overlook to place it in my post. It - is possible one good thing by which I do. Lady here in which I had interest, it is rather difficult, as I shall move far now. We speak ours goodbyes with some kind of relations already though we remain friendly with each other. Earlier this week, I recieve the call by phone from the woman, I have been engaged to before she does break with me earlier this year. I have suggested it to her to throw my life here and to come back home, be with her so we - not separately, that I would give up my work here. She has told, that it was, because we were far apart. Then I offer it to it, she speaks not, she only does not want me. So this week, she calls to me which I do not speak with her within six months, or more I think. She speaks, about, now you will move back here anyhow. Be possible we can together again. I ask her, you want it? After you do not want me before. She speaks yes, probably yes. I speak, well, in general, probably not, and have hanged up.

I have no nature the rough person. And last months when I think of time, I was with that woman, that I allow to her and what the victim in relations is, it - that I do for her and as she never supports or cares to me another then, that I remind, when I - with her, and what people will think of her if she - with me. I do not mean, that haughty which is only as it seems after all this time. I felt like almost well, I have hung up phone with her because it feels like similarly to, I shall be used again, and I stop it. It would be possible something good even if I was rather rough. But I see it, what friends speak before. She - not the nice person. I do not allow it bad again.

VN

 

[kaceechase]

VN, I so appreciate your Efforts and forgive me if I dont understand everything you say--I do Undertsand you are working on the English so forgive mne if I mix it up BUT It sounds Like you did an awesome thing and stopped something Bad before it Got out of hand. Sounds Like you are learning you are worth More than you use to be. Sounds Like you are growing. Nice to meet you. Keep up the good work.

 

[Dewey2k]

VN,

I want to congratulate you on this major step in taking care of yourself. As Ken says, you have learned that you are worth more, and that you deserve better than to be in a relationship with a person who uses you.

I do not think you were being rough. I believe you were standing up for yourself, and that is a good thing!

 

[Leosha]

V,

I am proud of you for standing up for yourself in this situation, as I know it is hard for you with someone you have had an emotional attachment to. But I think you were correct in assessing the situation, in that you were being manipulated, or would be if you were together with this person again. Good for you for protecting yourself.

Leosha