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Rustam

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Hi all,
I have had a look around and am glad I found this site.
Have come back to dealing with this issue a few months ago after some years of trying to ignore it.
Thanks for being here
Rustam.
 
If there is anything that we may be able to help you with, please do not hesitate. Welcome to MS.
 
Rustam,

First of all, of course, I wish to welcome you. And as I feel about all new survivors here, I wish you had never had a need to find us. But, again, you are most welcome here.

Take your time to look around. Talk if you wish, or just read for awhile. We don't go away! :D

Take care of YOU for now, OK?

Peace,

Marc
 
rustam,

welcome here from me also.

i hid and repressed my shit for 31 years.

hate you have to be here as all of us, our spot is o.k., be at peace with us and our site.

congrats on letting it out. i am so glad i finally did. i so wish i had ealrier instead of having to deal with this now; but what the hell; i could have waited another 20 or so years.

it helps, hurts, puts me in a quandry ometimes but overall, we are here. nothing is too bad, hardcore, worse than others.

we were innocent and that is the deal.

we gotta make it and be "beter"; whatever that is, overall. as marc said, read, post as you like, p.m. me or others as needed, we are here for sure.

peace, guy
 
Rustum
so many of us tried to surpress the past. We can only do it for so long though, and then we need some support and help. Being 'men' we find that hard to accept, but once we've made that difficult choice we soon learn that it was the right choice.

Dave
 
Rustum, welcome, we are always here for you. I hope you find some peace in what you have been through.

You are with the gang, the one's who've been with you all along.

Hey, you find us,

welcome,

ste
 
Rustam,

Welcome to Male Survivors. This is the place to come to assist you in healing from sexual abuse. Like Guy, I too, kept my abuse hidden for 31 years. Trust me, at some point it will become necessary to let it out. You have to deal with it in order to keep moving ahead in life. You've come to the right place. This site and these guys are the greatest thing that has happened to me in terms of healing. They understand like no one else can. We work to help ourselves and each other through sharing. Thanks for sharing with us.
 
Rustam - I'm am glad too that you found this site!! This place gives us all a place to share and work through issues that pursue us and won't go away. This gives us a place to shed our isolation recognizing we share a similar history!! I'm glad you came back and are seeking resolution to your abuse.I encourage you to keep searching, asking questions - sharing from your experience as you feel able !! Welcome!!!

Howard
 
Rustam,

Your introduction to us reminded me of when I found this place 18 months ago. Thank God for that and for you finding our club house. I've likened it to a tree house or fort where you can talk about anything because all of the guys understand what you're talking about.
I'm hoping that you find this place as helpful as some of us have, and that you'll soon learn that you can get better and better, healthier and healthier. You've made one big step by joining our ragtag army of survivors.
Here's to you and your success.

David
 
Hi Rumstan

Sorry you had to hunt us out but glad you are here, welcome from another Brit, there are a few of us here and the numbers are growing steadily unfortunately.

Stay close to these guys, you will find support and understanding here.

Regards

Archnut
 
Thanks all for the kind welcome.

I did some therapy on this ten years ago, then left it all again after making some gains. It sort of blew up again this year so I started therapy again.

Thanks again.

Rustam.
 
Rustam
Unfortunately I think CSA is something we need to keep doing a bit of work on all the time. Even when we think we're on top.

Dave
 
Dave, I have to agree there, we always need to keep on top of it, keep ourselves positive on recovery, and don't slip.

I have suffered the consequence of that one, too many times,

ste
 
Originally posted by Rustam:

Have come back to dealing with this issue a few months ago after some years of trying to ignore it.
Thanks for being here
Rustam.
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====> Hi Rustam and welcome. MS has been here for me and I know it can be here for you, too. This is one issue that I can set aside for awhile - sometimes just to take a break - but it never completely leaves me.

Kenn

Kenn
 
Rustam,

Sorry I'm late in welcoming you. This is a great place with a lot of wonderful people helping each other. The work is something we each have to do on our own, but not alone.

Glad you're facing whatever has come back up. Therapy is a great idea.

Thanks,

Joe
 
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