Dear-Born, I couldn't resist the pun, sorry.
Ya, there are a couple of good things that guys here have used to find good therapists. # one could have been the therapist that you had. That is to say, she could have been a good resource to help you find someone more qualified. Sometimes T arrogance gets in the way of that route.
Another avenue to a good contact is the local crisis or crises lines, rape or otherwise, where they keep referral lists of folks who specialize in Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA).
Our best, and sometimes most effective tool guy is Ken Singer of our site. He belongs to several professional organizations and has helped members to find therapists. We have other professionals who moderate or are otherwise connected to our site, whom you may hear from as well.
You could be of great service in finding someone we could recommend to others.
Good luck and if you get stuck on any of these trails, let me know.
David
