New Memory
So I was looking through some old pictures today. I didn't really know what I was looking for but I found it and it sucks.
I'm not feeling very poetic so I'll just say it. My Mom used to grab and pinch my ass constantly. It sounds stupid when I say it like that. It wasn't sexual at all (she used to say it was just so cute) but because I was being molested by my brother and having my boundaries crossed almost everyday I think I felt violated. I begged her to stop and she never did until I was in my teens.
I don't view this as child abuse or anything but perhaps this lack of boundaries is why I never stopped my brother. Perhaps this explains a real mistrustful and cold relationship with my parents.
Whats your guys take on this, am I overreacting because I'm in a lousy mood, is this type of behavior normal?
I'm not feeling very poetic so I'll just say it. My Mom used to grab and pinch my ass constantly. It sounds stupid when I say it like that. It wasn't sexual at all (she used to say it was just so cute) but because I was being molested by my brother and having my boundaries crossed almost everyday I think I felt violated. I begged her to stop and she never did until I was in my teens.
I don't view this as child abuse or anything but perhaps this lack of boundaries is why I never stopped my brother. Perhaps this explains a real mistrustful and cold relationship with my parents.
Whats your guys take on this, am I overreacting because I'm in a lousy mood, is this type of behavior normal?