New Member says Hi

New Member says Hi
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childsplay4

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Hello Friends and Family,
I have been reading these boards for about 3 months, since I am, or, well, was dating a Male Survivor.
I have really appreciated the sharing and kind atmosphere here.
I am hoping that my MS friend will change his mind, as he has dumped me before, but don't know if I have the strength to continue with the "emotional roller coaster ride from hell", as one of the members put it, in some of the older posts that I read.
I gave him a link to this site, and forwarded some of the posts to him that I believe applied to his situation, but I do not think he ever comes here, unfortunately.
I think I will continue to hang out here for awhile, even though it's over.
Thanks again,
B O'C
 
Childsplay,

I'm sorry things aren't working out with your relationship. It certainly is the "emotional roller coaster ride from hell." We know that well. The fact that you here learning speaks volumes about you - all good.

Welcome.

ROCK ON......Trish
 
I, too, am sorry about your relationship. I don't know how long it's been since you broke up, but perhaps it isn't over yet (I am ever the optimist).

I also know the roller coaster ride all too well.

Keep coming....keep learning. I am glad for the knowledge I have gained, and the people I have gotten to know here.
Kishka
 
Thanks for your sympathy. I don't think we will get back together, though.
Things were going well, I thought, but he flew off the handle due to a big misunderstanding, did not talk to me about it, and told me in no uncertain terms to leave him alone in the breakup email he sent me just one hour after we were kissing in the car.
He promised he would not do this again, after he dumped me via voicemail last month. He said that he would talk to me about it first, and not dump me via an impersonal means.
I could not trust him not to do this to me again.
b o'c
 
I'm sorry to hear how things have gone for you and your bf, and that he has disrespected you in this way.

all the best

peace
Beccy
 
you can hang out here for as long as you want to .there are guys here that appreciate your input and think its cool that you tried so hard to help him. adam
 
Thanks Adam,
I'm sure I am no prize, and there were things I could have done better, and things I should not have done at all. I love him, but in spite of all of the things I learned here, I am still a human being, with all of the flaws every human being has.
I appreciate your support,
b o'c
 
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