NEW FEELINGS
NEW FEELINGS
- Thread starterJAAY
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Not in connection with therapy at least. I've noticed what you speak of in connection with other events which wouldn't seem to be sexually triggering events. Life's funny that way sometimes. It would be understandable if you were still a teenager.
The nervousness you speak of sounds sort of like a reaction to medication such as antidepressant.
Courage,
John
The nervousness you speak of sounds sort of like a reaction to medication such as antidepressant.
Courage,
John
roadrunner
Registrant
Jaay,
I think your feelings show that you are benefitting from the change in therapist. If you are feeling more interested in sex, that's great! Ssex is a normal and health part of our lives, and when we avoid it that is usually for a serious reason - abuse in our case. Your greater interest in sex suggests to me that you are making progress.
But the nervousness is also natural. You may fear how it will go and how you will feel, especially if you had not been sexually active for awhile.
In any case, it is such a great sign that you say you are starting to enjoy your body and your life. That's what it's all about bro!
Much love,
Larry
I think your feelings show that you are benefitting from the change in therapist. If you are feeling more interested in sex, that's great! Ssex is a normal and health part of our lives, and when we avoid it that is usually for a serious reason - abuse in our case. Your greater interest in sex suggests to me that you are making progress.
But the nervousness is also natural. You may fear how it will go and how you will feel, especially if you had not been sexually active for awhile.
In any case, it is such a great sign that you say you are starting to enjoy your body and your life. That's what it's all about bro!
Much love,
Larry
endlessjourney
Registrant
Yea, that is definitely a sign of recovery. Sex is natural and healthy but be careful and try not to rush into it too fast. It can be very frightening and emotionally draining at times. It is good to set boundaries and to say no to sex sometimes. I KNOW, THAT SOUNDS CRAZY! But saying no can make you feel more in control of your body when you are with someone in the future. Make sure you do not feel compelled to do anything. If you start to feel like crap, stop or slow down. Remember, you'rein control of yourself now, you can make that call. other than that, GIT R DONE! 
good luck
Jason
good luck
Jason