never trusting a shrink again (cursing in this post)

never trusting a shrink again (cursing in this post)
Kuurt, you will be making choices sometime soon. Every choice we make comes with consequences, and/or a price.

Like Roadrunner suggested, the choices will be yours, since a forced or pushed recovery is no recovery at all.

I would suggest that you consider the cost of whatever decisions you make in your life anytime soon. I chose the path of silence, and look at where I'm at. I had many of the same classic signs of acting out at your age. (Falling grades, social isolation, poor self-image, experimenting with drugs/alcohol). I didn't just choose the path of silence, I chose no path of "doing nothing", as if my problems would just go away once I hit some arbitrary age like 18 or 21. Well, the problems didn't go away. They're still with me and I'm only now starting to address them.

Recently, you paid a price by barely exposing the fact that you have underlying issues that you would like to see addressed. (You got yelled at by a Mom that doesn't understand your situation and betrayed by a school counselor that doesn't know how to do her job). Yes, you paid a price for that.

If you choose to not address your problems, what will the cost of THAT price be?
 
Kurt,

Can you let us know how things went in school? I know you have been upset about this.

Don't clam up, okay? That won't help at all. You are safe here and I hope you will be able to talk.

Much love,
Larry
 
Kuurt,
If it make you feel any better your not alone in your view of the public school system being shity. I have asked them to keep a few thing confidintial they didn't even though I'm 18 and I have every right that they NOT call my mom for everything I say to them. Don't give up man. We're here for ya.
 
I'm so sorry this happened, Kuurt. The counselor was dead wrong to mislead you like that. Don't mistrust all t's. There are some good ones out there who can really help you. I really do ache for you and how frustrated and hurt you must feel. Bobby
 
Kuurt

Never give up, thats all Im gonna say.

Everyone has said what I think anyway, I just hope and pray you dont give up.

Life can and does get better.

And dude!! Stop listening to system of a down!! Thats some terrible tunage (he says with a smile!!) ;) :) :D
 
This is off topic. I just wanted to elaborate on Janpanzen's comment about Music.

I would suggest SOAD is appropriate for what Kuurt's feeliing right now. There is much to appreciate in the feelings that they project in thier music.

Hell, what would you suggest that he listen to? Peter, Paul, and Mary? :)
 
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