My therapist was right, again ($%#$%#^$%^)

My therapist was right, again ($%#$%#^$%^)

EGL

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Went to see my therapist today, prepared to debate what he had been telling me last week about "worth". Last week we had discussed a person's abilities and talents and how those define a person's worth. He asked me to think on it this week, and I did. I had my rebuttal all planned: "What about prostitutes? They have "abilities", but should we define their worth by those abilities?" Hence, the reason behind my reasoning that whatever achievements I have made in life are useless.

He quickly pointed out the error of my thinking (DAMN!). What helps define our worth is how we use our abilities and achievements in life IN SPITE OF the adversities we've faced. For all of us here who have faced tremendous adversity by being crapped on in the most horrible of ways, our accomplishments and achievements show that we have developed a keen sense of how to survive. That, my friends, is "worthy".

(That man (my T) is smart....he's finally starting to get through this thick skull of mine, ever so slowly.)
 
I love what you said and I totally agree (of course at one time you couldn't have convinced me of this either). But what you talk about is what motivates me and gives me the strength to go out and do my part in the world.

Thanks for sharing it. If it is ok, I would love to quote part of your post on my Encouragement and Inspiration Yahoo Group.

Don
 
Originally posted by MrDon:
If it is ok, I would love to quote part of your post on my Encouragement and Inspiration Yahoo Group.

Don
Hi, Don. Feel free, I'm glad it helped.
 
Eddie,

Sounds like you have a very good and smart therapist (don't you just hate that sometime? ;) )

It is rather like 'IQ', which is not brain power, but the ability to learn and process new information, I think. Someone with an IQ of 180, are they worth more then someone with an IQ of 80? It is in what you do with it, how you apply it an yourself.

Leosha
 
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