My mom is a trigger
usccabum1985
Registrant
Let me start by saying my perp was a female. Because of this It makes it veary hard for me to have a "normal" relationship with females. Its also a bummer because there are certin things I cant be exposed to, i.e. a female with brown curly hair, or the sound of a womens yell, tone of voice. those are the two that matter at this moment. My mom has brown curly hair, and Its difficult to stay comfterbal around her. It was just uncomfterbal, untill yesterday. I was trying to talk to my mom about a Halloween costume and she just got sooo flusterd and started yelling, and BAM! She triggerd a falsh back! After it was over I went outside to smoke. When I came back in and tryed to inform my mom what had happend she again got upset and started yelling again. BAM! Second flash back, this one being much worse than the first.
This is a big problam for me as I treat my triggers as just that, a trigger. Now that my mom has triggerd two flash backs, I am starting to worry. Its clear that she hasent listend to my repeated request to watch how she talks infront of me, she dosent seem to care. I wont see her again for a few hours, untill she gets home from school. How do I handal this? Im thinking It has passed the point of me being nice about this. For YEARS I have warned her, only to have her ignore me and not take it sereosly. Also now that she has triggerd a flash back, I dont know how Ill be around her. any help/ feedback would help alot. Thankyor for taking the time to read my rambiling posts.
This is a big problam for me as I treat my triggers as just that, a trigger. Now that my mom has triggerd two flash backs, I am starting to worry. Its clear that she hasent listend to my repeated request to watch how she talks infront of me, she dosent seem to care. I wont see her again for a few hours, untill she gets home from school. How do I handal this? Im thinking It has passed the point of me being nice about this. For YEARS I have warned her, only to have her ignore me and not take it sereosly. Also now that she has triggerd a flash back, I dont know how Ill be around her. any help/ feedback would help alot. Thankyor for taking the time to read my rambiling posts.