My Court case Judgement. Helpful?

[12to17]

Been awhile since I've been here, although offered to all my 4 older brothers, only one chose to receive and read a copy of the Judges judgement, as I guess they all felt they's failed their "little brother" all those years ago, as they never knew. Would it or could it help others if I posted the judgment here? The State Prosecutors at the time said they'd never seen any Judge so open and emotional in his judgement, especially about my victims statement! Really hard to write how events from decades ago affected ones life, but was a good thing for me to do, as I think it helped me, and maybe the Judge and others understand it all a little better?? Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks R

 

[Publius]

"Really hard to write how events from decades ago affected ones life, but was a good thing for me to do, as I think it helped me"

If there is a group out there who could fully appreciate how events from decades ago could affect one's life it's fellow survivors. I am glad to hear the Judge's judgement has helped you (as it should!). On a site where so many were let down by their parents, their teachers, and sometimes even their legal system it's heartening to witness legal recourse or at the very least to have a survivor's voice heard in open court. Personally, I'd be interested in reading the decision. The more our mental health professionals, government officials (police, judges, etc.), and general society come to understand sexual abuse and its impact the better off we will all be in the end. CSA thrives in the darkness and cannot survive in the light. Thank you for taking a stand!

 

[Jude]

12to17,

Congratulations on seeing justice done! As my friend above said, many times the legal system fails to convict and punish perpatrators. Your victory is good news for all of us.

I vote for you're posting it. Or alternatively, you could offer to PM it to those who want to read it.

Be well,

Jude

 

[KMCINVA]

12to17

I am happy you received justice for what was done to you. It took courage to face the courts and judges. The judge appears to have a heart and understood that the pain is buried deep and can rise decades later.

I hope your brothers turn around and realize what was done to you was real and you suffered. They should not turn away, but rather embrace and support you. Families can be difficult and many people cannot accept such heinous acts or their own actions as you faced the abuse.

I hope writing it here has helped you. You can share as much as you feel comfortable sharing. It is your story and only you know what will give you comfort.

I hope the justice gives you more healing.

Kevin