My apologies to Lloydy and eveyone else

[taipan]

Please accept my apologies, I believe you are right, my anger is misplaced. Feeling emotions is a new thing to me. However, I do honestly feel he reinforced her (completely wrong!!!) suspicions, and had I known some of what she was thinking I MAY (may be not I can not tell) have responded differently and sought T then. I am totally and completely in love with my wife and am so sorry (and feeling guilty) that I was unable to seek counseling in time to save her from separating from me. I think my anger towards Lloydy is my feeling guilty and not knowing how to deal with feelings that I have never felt before. Again please accept my apologies everyone. This is a GREAT place for support. Sincerely, taipan

 

[Lloydy]

Taipan
I'm so sorry that my post to your wife caused so much distress to you both, it's never my intention to put doubt where none exists.
I've read back through the various postings and I think I know the one you mean, and it could have been said better.

I hope you both continue to come here for support, I know how much I get from being here, and the Family & Friends forum is one of my main sources of support.
Knowing how other partners feel, and discussing aspects of our difficult relationships help's me with mine.

I understand your anger, and I accept your apology completly, as I hope you accept mine for not being more careful.

The whole subject of SA and our problems is a difficult area, and when we post we don't have the benefit of the instant reaction from the other person so mistakes can't be explained right then.

Dave