"more lessons learned" in off topic

[theo]

i have debated posting this particular entry because i did not want to come across as seeking something. however, i know that sometimes i do not go through all the forums, and i hope that my lessons might help others. that is why we share our journeys here. i do not want recognition, i just want to share what i have learned and continue to struggle with. normally i post such things to each forum, but i realize it is not always appropriate. therefore, i offer this as a flag to those interested that only read a single forum or two. take care everyone, and continue to journey well.