Mom
LilacLouie
Registrant
I finally sat down and discussed my CSA issue with my mom. I never said who did it, I never pointed fingers. And the first thing out of her mouth is "false memories". WTF?
How the hell does she know it's false memory?
I looked into false memories, and it's clearly not it. With false memories, it seems the person has the capability of changing their story, though sub-consciously, to fit the factors they are presented with. My story, for the early age CSA and for the rape of my late teens, they never change. I cannot truthfully give an age when the early age CSA happened, because I honestly don't know. But it has been 22 years since the rape in my late teens, and the story has been the same for those 22 years.
I know from the beginning I always thought it was my mother. Now I'm wondering even more. I say she either knows who did it, or maybe she did do it after all.
Am I wrong in that assumption? What are the details on false memory? Does her bringing false memory up mean what I think it does?
How the hell does she know it's false memory?
I looked into false memories, and it's clearly not it. With false memories, it seems the person has the capability of changing their story, though sub-consciously, to fit the factors they are presented with. My story, for the early age CSA and for the rape of my late teens, they never change. I cannot truthfully give an age when the early age CSA happened, because I honestly don't know. But it has been 22 years since the rape in my late teens, and the story has been the same for those 22 years.
I know from the beginning I always thought it was my mother. Now I'm wondering even more. I say she either knows who did it, or maybe she did do it after all.
Am I wrong in that assumption? What are the details on false memory? Does her bringing false memory up mean what I think it does?