Here are all the most recent emails between myself and the reporter (article should post later today!!!)
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Wed, Sep 25, 2019 at 3:38 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
(very nicely worded, btw)
will I be able to see the final article before it is published??
- [Kal]
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Wed, Sep 25, 2019 at 3:47 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
Thanks.
Regarding seeing the final article before it is published – No, we don’t let people review stories before they are published.
Yesterday, I read to you what will probably be the lede (first sentence).
Is there something you are specifically concerned about?
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Wed, Sep 25, 2019 at 5:03 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
I trust you - I am just afraid of being blind sided and the article being skewed to the opposite of my intent. But overall, I trust you.
- [Kal]
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Wed, Sep 25, 2019 at 5:07 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
I can understand your concerns, [Kal].
I’ve written the outline already. We can talk on the phone again after it is done.
I’m still waiting on a couple of things, so hopefully next week.
Have a good day.
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Fri, Oct 4, 2019 at 2:13 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
any updates?? did he ever respond?? (it has been 10 days)
- [Kal]
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Fri, Oct 4, 2019 at 8:24 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
No response, except from the public relations person. When I asked about the process for reporting sex abuse, she referred me to the book of discipline.
Are you still with the UMC or are you with a different denomination?
I remember during one of our phone conversations you mentioned you do still attend church and you described the process for child care and safety measures taken around that.
Can you tell me, in your church, what would happen if there were an instance of suspected sex abuse or if someone reported that?
At what point would law enforcement be contacted?
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Fri, Oct 4, 2019 at 10:26 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
From: [Kal]
Are you still with the UMC or are you with a different denomination?
no. I actually was never formally a member of UMC. I now attend a non-denominational church with a loose affiliation to [Denomination].
I remember during one of our phone conversations you mentioned you do still attend church and you described the process for child care and safety measures taken around that.
yes, they are very similar to what UMC apparently does to protect children. (I spoke about this with the UMC lady in Chicago). Systems and rules in place to protect children.
Can you tell me, in your church, what would happen if there were an instance of suspected sex abuse or if someone reported that? At what point would law enforcement be contacted?
I do not have the policy memorized, I would have to look it up, but it would be reported to church leadership and then they would decide if law enforcement needed to get involved.
so what did the PR person actually say? can you forward it to me?
What are your plans moving forward?
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Mon, Oct 7, 2019 at 4:15 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
The PR person just referred me to the book of discipline.
I’m working on the story today. It’s still a story even if they choose to not comment.
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Mon, Oct 7, 2019 at 4:46 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
Ok. I have another question for clarity – I know you ended up speaking with the people at the [Regional Governing Body of state where abuse happened], but whom did you first contact? The local (in [city where the abuse happened]) church or…?
Thanks,
["Ms. Reporter"]
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Mon, Oct 7, 2019 at 5:06 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
From: [Kal]
[from what I sent you earlier…]
4/10/19
Wednesday at 12:21 PM
went on to the UMC website, they have "Live Chat" this is what I wrote.....
Back in the 1980's, when I lived in [state], at age 20 (though I looked 16) I was Sexually Assaulted by a
Methodist Minister. (yes it was reported to the local UMC leadership at the time.) Who do I speak to about
my experiences at a national level so that similar abuses do not occur within UMC in the future??
- [Kal]
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Mon, Oct 7, 2019 at 5:22 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
Thank you! When I looked at the email thread you sent, I thought Becky was the first person you contacted.
So it is accurate to say the following;
In April, [Kallikrates] asked in a UMC website “live chat” whom he should speak to at a national level about his experiences. He was referred to a United Methodist Sexual Ethics staff person and then to Bishop [Regional Bishop of state where abuse happened]’s office.
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Mon, Oct 7, 2019 at 5:24 PM
To: ["Ms. Reporter"]
From: [Kal]
Perfect.
sexual ethics person is the National HEAD of that area. based in Chicago. I think use of her full name would be appropriate - we had several discussions about what happened before getting in contact with the Bishop's office.
- [Kal]
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Tue, Oct 8, 2019 at 1:29 PM
To: [Kal]
From: ["Ms. Reporter"]
Thank you, [Kal],
I finished the story yesterday. It should run this week. I'm getting ready to go out of town (as you probably noticed in my auto reply).
This our website: [URL Link to Reporter’s Newspaper’s Website]
All the stories are usually posted by Wednesday afternoon.
I'll try to send you a link to the story, but my access to the internet will be somewhat limited.
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