maybe the right forum--MARITAL ISSUES
I'm up tonight because, well, I just am not supported by my wife. She, TOO, plays the dominant female in our relationship, and for years I've just fricken been quiet. Her father was on and off again with jobs, and I'm treated like absolute shit when she gets anxious about money.
I went to the job placement place today because I have been considering going to school for nursing. I called my wife after with what I learned (nothing dramatic), and she started riding me with "is any of this money (for school) going to pay for our house?" !!!!!FUCK!!!!! It was loaded with the message "you're going to fail me now".... DAMMMMMM
I ignored her through dinner with our families, and before bed I spoke up "I think I'm gonna have to go school for awhile"... And more "you're gonna fail us now" messages (my interpretation)
I am reading something that says "who is to blame when you set me up for failure, and I fail? Who is responsible if I am seen as an absolute failure, treated like one, and I fail?" I'M MAD AT HER!!! I'm trying to change, do different things, finding open doors, and when I do, I get this bullshit discouragement!!!! I'M PISSED OFFFF!!!!!!!
Okkkkkkkkaaaayyyyyyyyyy.... who do I trust this with? Everytime I'm near her I get mad. I'm expecting some belief, some respect, and she's giving me total rejection!! F******** HER!!!!!!!!!!!
I REALLY NEED TO VENT BECAUSE I'VE BEEN LIVING WITH HER LIKE THIS, AND I'M F***ING WANTING TO SLUG HER.
WHO HAS EVER LIVED WITH THIS?/????!!!! HOW THE FRICK DID YOU GET THROUGH IT?
Alfred
I went to the job placement place today because I have been considering going to school for nursing. I called my wife after with what I learned (nothing dramatic), and she started riding me with "is any of this money (for school) going to pay for our house?" !!!!!FUCK!!!!! It was loaded with the message "you're going to fail me now".... DAMMMMMM
I ignored her through dinner with our families, and before bed I spoke up "I think I'm gonna have to go school for awhile"... And more "you're gonna fail us now" messages (my interpretation)
I am reading something that says "who is to blame when you set me up for failure, and I fail? Who is responsible if I am seen as an absolute failure, treated like one, and I fail?" I'M MAD AT HER!!! I'm trying to change, do different things, finding open doors, and when I do, I get this bullshit discouragement!!!! I'M PISSED OFFFF!!!!!!!
Okkkkkkkkaaaayyyyyyyyyy.... who do I trust this with? Everytime I'm near her I get mad. I'm expecting some belief, some respect, and she's giving me total rejection!! F******** HER!!!!!!!!!!!
I REALLY NEED TO VENT BECAUSE I'VE BEEN LIVING WITH HER LIKE THIS, AND I'M F***ING WANTING TO SLUG HER.
WHO HAS EVER LIVED WITH THIS?/????!!!! HOW THE FRICK DID YOU GET THROUGH IT?
Alfred