Making Love Vs. Having Sex

Making Love Vs. Having Sex
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DodgeChallenger

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Sex has got to be the most complicated aspect of human life. It is primal yet we have the ability to reason. We have urges yet we know we should not follow all of them.
My wife has taught me that sex can be used to remain intimate and show love. She is the only woman to ever display that concept.
When I am having a bad day, she will cuddle with me and be close to me. Sometimes I simply penetrate her and we just lay there and kiss. She then says the most wonderful things in my ear. Things about my body, my character, my mind. I am happy to have found a woman that loves me for who I am and has taught me sex lessons when I thought I knew everything. I knew the mechanics but not the heart of it.
Jake
 
sex and love together?
 
Jake,

You have hit upon the very essense of what a satisfying sexual relationship should be about. It's not so much the physical aspect as it is the emotional connection with it. I love those moments like you described, when I feel like there is absolutely no where else in the world I would rather be than there with my wife. It's that feeling of literally being one flesh together and in tune with each other that is so incredible.
 
why do they call it making love? shouldnt two people who have sex already be in love ?is love something you can manufacture from raw ingredients?for me sex and love are about as far apart as, well black and white.total opposites. sex equals pain plain and simple ,i,ve never had one without the other. guess that's not how it's supposed to be huh? adam
 
I'm very happy for you, I've not once had sex with someone that I loved. I've had sex with nice people, but not anyone I would want to spend the rest of my life with or felt such a stong emotional connection with.
 
Ultimately, sex should be about how much you love your partner. This could be taken as being a bit old fashioned, but that depth of intimacy is not something that can happen when we are willing to fall into bed with anyone, anytime the urge strikes us.

Yes, we can experience the awesome physical release that comes from just having a mutual, lust filled fuck with someone. That experience does not even begin to compare with what is available when you share it with someone with whom you also share an emotional intimacy and love that comes from a commitment and joy of just being lifelong partners.

So yes, Adam, two people who make love should already be in love. The act of sex is simply the most intimate way of expressing that love that is available to them, hence the term "making love".

That's the way I see it.

Lots of love,

John
 
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