Limbo

[lostcowboy]

Limbo, my life is in limbo right now. The one good thing is I have broken down and have been working with the VA in Dallas. I have been taking medicine for depression. I have started one on one therapy, first session went well.

My main problem is I am unable to approach girls that I am attracted to, and if I should get to know them I am afraid to let them know I am interested in them sexually.

My other problem is I let people manipulate me.

I think both of these problems stem from my childhood.

Take care,
Clifford

 

[On The Fringe]

They well could. Getting help and discussing your past will probably kick over some rocks with interesting things beneath them.

It may be scary at times. Hang in there.

We can get better. Guys never understand women anyway. If you think you understand one, that just means she has you trained.

And they like sex as much or more than we do. Don't believe otherwise!

 

[jas4159]

I think you may be right. for me i was having the same problem so i decide to stay away from women until i was well into recovery and had a good handle on it. it worked well and it sounds like you are also on the right track.

 

[lostcowboy]

Well this week has not gone well. My psychiatrist had to cancel my second appointment. I asked this girl I like if I could date her. She didn't say yes or no, but it took two days before she would respond at all. I guess she just wants to be friends. I guess that is better than not wanting to talk to me at all.

I'll get over it, but right now I am feeling bummed out.
Take care ,
Clifford