letter to my parents

letter to my parents

shadowkid

WARNING from ModTeam, September 2013: user "Shado
dear mom and dad YOU SUCK!!
adam
 
Adam,

I hope your folks see the error of what they did.
PM me anytime if you need to talk, I know its hard right now,

ste
 
:D What a great letter. I'd love to send that to my parents.

Take care, Shadow. There are good people out there. I just don't happen to be related to any of them.
 
Adam,

I get your meaning, but have you considered the possibility of writing a real letter stating how you feel in detail. You wouldn't have to mail it, but I bet just writing it would help you a lot. It would enable you to channel a lot of the anger you feel.

Much love,
Larry
 
If you havent already done it Larry is right, writing them a letter can help. My letters are in my book, my mother read the book and I think it has improved our relationship.

I still like your letter though.
 
Adam,

A very pointed and succinct letter, and from what I know of your story, a pretty accurate characterization as well.

I agree with Larry. Write it all out if you wish. Get it out there in black and white. Even mail it, or not, depending on how you feel about it. The point is that the exercise could be very therapeutic.

Lots of love,

John
 
Adam,

I too know of your past and I've gotta tell you - I laughed out loud when I read your "letter".

I think it's great! It gets straight to the point. I hope it helped you in getting that out.
 
for some reason i woke up at 4 am not from a nightmare or anything but i just felt like i needed to post this .i would like to write a real letter but i'm afraid it would end up being very long . grunty i laughed when i wrote it ,it is so simple but so true . adam
 
Adam,

Wow. My favorite part is the part that says,
dear mom and dad YOU SUCK!!
Go shadowkid!

But I too agree that writing a longer one would be helpful. You could start with what you have and say something like, "here's why . . . . . . . . . ."

Love ya

Darrel
 
Adam - Your letter is short, to the point and all that needs to be said! If you ever get ready to write that long, detailed letter to your parents that spells everything out in "black and white", I'd like to share this advice. Make sure YOU say what's on YOUR heart! Don't argue about what you've written (because that's the way it is!). Don't expect to get any support back...the letter is for you alone to get out what's on your heart!! I tried to talk with my parents about turning a deaf ear and blind eye for 8+ years of continual abuse I suffered and they knew about. Both were intensely defensive of their doing any wrong. Their defensiveness was nothing to me, I knew what I said was honest and true. They did nothing in response to benefit me BUT my getting it out to them was all the benefit I needed. Keep up your healing and work. You're OK!!

Howard
 
We can only as people who has gone through a though time realise what our parents have done to us.

WE NEED to know how to safegaurd our children now.

The world is a sick place to live in and we need to come together and protect our kids.

We are here today and they will be here tomorrow. Only we can stop that from happeing by listining to our kids when they talk to us.

WE NEED TO PROTECT THEM FROM THE EVIL THAT IS OUT THERE TODAY.

WE NEED TO STOP THEM FROM CUMMING HERE TOMORROW BY LISTINGING TO THEM TODAY

FROM A CONFUSED AND STRESSFULL DAD TODAY.....
 
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